Some people say that when you want to break up, an excuse is not a bad thing, but we need to know what an excuse is to avoid being misled. Let's take a look at various reasons for breaking up collected by experts.
1. A man's excuse for breaking up:
"I'm like a dandelion, hard to catch."
Just like it but don't feel like it
I feel a bit tired with you and my heart is a bit cold
"I love you very much, but you care too much about me, I can't stand it if you care about me."
There is a wall between us, and we can only forget each other from afar
"I dare not be nice to you anymore, because you are so kind to me. I'm afraid that if I treat you well, you will treat me better, and I can't give you anything.". (Although a bit awkward, I have really heard others say that.)
2. A man's excuse for breaking up curses him sick:
"I am now physically and psychologically abnormal, and being separated from you is good for you.".
I'm really sick, mentally ill. (Later, I found out that he knows many girls online, and it seems like he's really sick, a flower addict.).
Exaggerated talk about cancer... Plain talk about serious chronic diseases, which can become increasingly severe and affect you for a lifetime
3. A man's excuse for breaking up portrays a bleak future:
"I don't think we have anything to say." "Do you really think we're suitable?" "I'm going to study abroad, and I don't know what the future holds. I'm not worth it."
Let's get married when I succeed (but I'm a poor man and I know you're anxious to leave if you don't get married soon).
4. Sad type of excuse for men breaking up:
I can't let go of my ex girlfriend
My ex girlfriend has cancer, I have to take care of her, I can't let her know that with you, she will be stimulated She passed away, and I have to take care of her parents I can't promise you anything. It's too unfair to you.
"My wife knows, I love you, but I can't let my child have no mother..." (Then, with tears in her eyes, she led another junior out of my sight... hahahaha, she deserved it.)
5. Excuses for men to break up: Seeking sympathy and talking to their parents:
"My parents have a bad marriage, and I have no confidence in getting married."
"I love you very much, but my parents strongly disagree. I cannot harm them."
6. Thinking on the excuse for breaking up with men: Lifestyle:
Do you think we can still live like this?
We seem to live in two worlds
7. Direct action type of excuse for men breaking up:
The person suddenly evaporated
Sudden refusal to respond to text messages or phone calls, refusal to meet
Don't say anything, deliberately snubbing her until she is disheartened, proposes to break up, and quickly agrees.
8. An excuse for a man to break up: After Autumn, Accounting Style:
I've thought a lot, but I still can't accept your past. (Why did I go earlier? Besides, I haven't had much past except talking about my boyfriend twice.)
"We've been together for three years, and you've never given me everything you have (without having a relationship). I feel like you don't really love me and don't completely believe me..."
9. Self deprecating excuses for men breaking up:
"I can't give you anything. Long pain is better than short pain. Let's get over it!"
"I'm really sorry for you, I'll spend the rest of my life in regret. But I can't continue to be with you."
I don't want to delay you... (I'm afraid it's difficult to find a partner when a woman gets older in the future. This is a good thing. Let's finish quickly and find each one separately.).
"I'm not good enough to drag you down. I'm much older than you."
It's all my fault, it's all my fault, I'm the worst person in the world, don't ask for your forgiveness, just ask you to forget me and live a good life!
"I don't think I deserve you. You should find someone better than me."
I think your personality is too strong. I'm under a lot of pressure. (Why don't you say you're both powerful and incompetent?)
10. A man's excuse for breaking up:
"We have just graduated and want to focus on our career."
Recently, I have been busy with my work
11. The perfunctory type of excuse for breaking up with men:
In fact, you look pretty good, but you're too introverted. I don't think we can get along (actually, you're really not beautiful enough).
Let's still be ordinary friends. When we're free, we can send a text message to say hello. If you have a better partner, I won't mind.
Let's still be brothers and sisters
12. Other excuses for men breaking up:
I don't want to get married at all. (My friend told his girlfriend that Ya is a marriage maniac at all. She usually talks a lot about her vision for the future and educational planning for her children, just because she doesn't want to marry her.)