Post Date December, 03 2023
Why do men change their minds easily? Why is there extramarital love or a third party? Women all curse "Chen Shimei", but the curse is not a change of heart. We should know that it is the nature of all human beings to like the new and hate the old.
First of all, strengthen your cultural cultivation.
If you can keep up with the times, you can keep up with your husband or boyfriend. In modern society, men's values and family values have changed greatly. A silly, obedient girl who knows nothing about the world can't hold a strong man's heart. From ancient times to the present, I have never heard of a famous dignified and elegant lady who can get a man's special favor. The men who make men want to die are Bao Si, Cixi, Daji, Wu Meiniang, Li Shishi, Su Xiaoxiao, Sai Jinhua, etc., who are intelligent, intelligent, proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, and talented.
Many public opinion polls found that men prefer and need smart, trendy and intelligent partners. In modern society, taking children to cook and wash clothes is no longer a wife's job, but has been replaced by nannies, kindergartens, high-end restaurants and restaurants.
Second, be confident.
Men like confident women. Confidence can make a mediocre face shine. We should cultivate and protect our charm. Charm doesn't come from face. I'm against using knives and guns in my face. I think I will never go for cosmetic surgery. Nature and truth are the most beautiful. We just try to protect ourselves carefully. It is possible to slow down aging. My sister called me from France and told me that she wanted to go for cosmetic surgery. I immediately told her firmly: "If you go for cosmetic surgery, I don't like you anymore. I like the way you look. Your face is not important at all."
Third, don't love yourself.
This kind of women are most likely to be abandoned by men. They pay the most and lose the most. If you give everything you have as a gift to the other party, the other party will think it is too easy and put it aside without pity. Many of my male friends are divorced or have a third party because of bad feelings. Their wives are blameless. I asked them why? They said they didn't know. After thinking for a long time, they replied to me: Maybe I didn't come after them!
Fourth, give the other party some freedom and enough space.
It is very important for couples to keep a certain distance. If you suffocate a man, he will hate you. Keep the other person fresh with you. If he stays with you all day, he will feel dull one day. Let him do his own business. It's enough to be with you eight hours away or at night.
Fifth, remember that marriage is only an obligation, not a right.
Never hurt a man's self-esteem, always give him face! Many women take men as their private property after marriage. They can't be moved to show their face, throw the table, throw the bench, or be angry and don't talk. They leave in front of others, and so on. They often make a lot of noise, and discipline their husbands in public without the gentleness of women. They look like they are angry. The courtesy and gentleness of the first love affair are gone, revealing their true colors. You know that if a man marries you, he doesn't sell him to you. Why should he be angry with others? All people have good face, especially men. If you don't give him face once in public, you can't make up for it even if you are willing to cook for him for a year later. Even if you come home and argue with him again, it's much better than arguing in front of people. However, it is better not to quarrel, especially over trivial matters. Some things are not enough to be ignored.
Sixth, adapt to each other, and don't try to change them.
Remember not to babble. Don't be a gossip. Remember that no one is perfect. You are not perfect in your own rules. By seeking common ground while reserving minor differences, you can get rid of the nagging women's disease that all men hate.
Seventh, anyone who leaves can live. Don't hang from a tree.
You and your husband had never known each other before, and became a couple due to an accidental reason. The so-called "natural couple" is just an adjective. No couple in the world is born. If you are united, you will be together. If you are not united, you will be separated. There is nothing great about it. Without carrots, you can still make a table.
The sky won't fall. The world won't end. Don't place your hope on others. Don't put the reins of your destiny in the hands of others. Take control of your own destiny. That way, you won't be at a loss in the time of change. Be pessimistic about the world and make a mess.
Finally, if you try your best to lose him, don't want him.
There is such a kind of man (including women, of course) in the world. He is born with a soft nature. He plays with the opposite sex to satisfy his selfish desire. Such a man is not worthy of a family. If you encounter such a person unfortunately, it is your bad luck. When you think you are unlucky, you should throw away all your illusions about him, leave him and search for your new life again. Don't wait for him to change your mind foolishly, and waste your glorious years for him. In this world, first of all, you should take care of yourself. If you don't take care of yourself, then I have to tell you. No one will take care of you. Don't care too much about age difference. You don't have to find a man better than you. It's better for two people to be close to each other.
(Intern editor: Cai Junyi)
