Post Date April, 15 2023
Appearance Association Nowadays, many people often take appearance as their first impression of knowing a person, but is appearance really all about a person? Many people tend to pursue the perfect appearance they imagine and forget to enrich their inner self. Appearance certainly requires attention, but who doesn't like beautiful people and things, and who doesn't have content, makes it even more difficult for people to continue to get along.
I have met a lot of girls and guys who have asked a question: What exactly can you say to please someone. Is it just good-looking? Do men all like girls with long hair? Do women all like warm men? We are all trapped in love, and no one is a saint. When we meet someone we love, we really give up. They worry that they are not the way the other person likes them; Not confident in their appearance; You may even want to become the person you like through "physical means.".
How can one please someone? Can it be that only being beautiful is the only way to have a boyfriend; Can it be that only being handsome is the best medicine for taking off a single? Hey, it's really not true. In this era of beauty being sought after, most of us are really ordinary people. What's the difference? It's just the nose, eyes, mouth, and ears. A good appearance is your first impression, and an interesting soul is your true value. Nowadays, technology is too developed, and there are more and more beautiful women who only use physical means. However, there is only one point that cannot be copied, which is an interesting soul.
A person's personality and attitude are her most unique internal qualities.
Careful investigation of appearance and ability will reveal a very interesting thing. "There are some people in life who attribute their success to one thing: 'Isn't it just being beautiful? It's not really a skill to rely on looks to get ahead,' or 'If she weren't that beautiful, men would look up to her.'". "This type of person's judgment of appearance is very contradictory. On the one hand, they despise it, on the other hand, they admire it, and then attribute their misfortunes to their external appearance, saying, 'There's no way, people are born, we don't have such good genes.'". And they never think about what's wrong with the difference between themselves and others. Is it really the difference in external skin? The more you rely on your true abilities and personal abilities to accomplish the task the day after tomorrow, the less they mention it, and that's the real difference!
Zhang Zetian married Liu Qiangdong, and Kunling married Jay Chou. Some people start to get sour. At a young age, with children and a husband, they become winners in life, not just by being "beautiful"! In fact, when you think about it, it's not really true. The skin is external, and the soul is internal. Excellent people always like people who are even with themselves, not just their looks. Appearance is a person's first impression, but we rely on interesting souls to get along with others. Rather than complaining about how unsatisfactory your appearance is, it's better to find ways to improve your inner self. You know, there are many people who look good and work harder than you. This is what really fills the heart!
In the eyes of ordinary people, men are visual animals, and they are small girls who all like to be beautiful and young. Then a large group of girls began to worry. The woman's appearance was only a few years old, and after 25, people began to decline. It seems that women turn pale when they age, while men become more popular as they get older. "I don't understand. Love is a two-way choice. Why do you have to be picked up from the vegetable market and worry about being left behind?". If this is a high-quality variety, why bother? Once a woman has passed 25, her external appearance goes downhill, but her internal temperament and cultivation can go up. "If you recognize reality on the path of appearance without paying attention to the inner world, you really cannot become an interesting soul in a million.".
I have asked many men around me what do you value most when interacting with others? "External appearance, not too beautiful, comfortable. The main reason is good personality, able to chat." In the end, it is still good personality. After all, in love, the key to getting along with others is a person's personality, while appearance is something that looks comfortable.
Carefully observe the excellent people around you, and you will find one thing in common: their partners are not bad either. You're excellent, but I'm not bad either. The true balance is a fusion of interesting souls. There are always people who ask, "How can I find the right person?" And the answer is chicken soup, always saying, "Just wait, the right person will appear.". But no one really knows when to wait. The real and accurate answer is that you need to constantly improve yourself, and then there will be someone who is suitable for you. No matter when he appears, if not, I will lead a good life of high quality; When we meet each other and are suitable for each other, life will be icing on the cake.
Appearance is the best thing that can be maintained and improved on the original basis. If it cannot be improved, it is best to enhance one's inner self. Don't spend all day thinking about why you don't have a boyfriend and why no one loves you. With this time, it's better to read more, earn more money, exercise more, and travel more to broaden your horizons. When you're good enough, are you worried about being unloved?
When you have time, enrich your soul well. It is often said, "If you don't read for a day, your face is disgusting. Only continuous improvement is the best medicine for maintaining a beautiful appearance!"!
