Post Date December, 02 2023
Every man yearns for success in his life and work, but it is scary for successful men to have many psychological thoughts. Now let the experts introduce it to you:
1. Greedy mentality
Some people believe that the purpose of making friends is to "make use of each other". They only associate with friends who are useful and can bring benefits to themselves, and often "bridge the river". This unhealthy mentality of seeking wealth and benefiting others can damage one's own personality.
2. Apathy mentality
Some people treat various things as indifferent and indifferent as long as they are not related to themselves, or mistakenly believe that sharp words and aloof attitudes are "personalities", causing others to dare not approach them and lose some friends.
3. Suspicious psychology
Some people tend to look at each other with distrust in social interactions or when they entrust their friends to do things, causing unfounded suspicion, catching up on rumors, and gossiping. For example, some people entrust their friends to do things, but ask others what their friends say when they do things, which ultimately affects the relationship between friends.
4. reverse psychology
Some people always argue with others to show that they are innovative and stand out. For any matter, right or wrong, if you say good, I think bad; If you say it's right, I'll say it's wrong, which makes others feel disgusted with you.
5. Playful psychology
Some people regard making friends as a chance play, constantly changing, adapting to different situations, boasting and saying beautiful things. Once they meet someone, they will say how deep they have been in a relationship with them. This type of person only engages in superficial interactions with others, and therefore has no deep emotional friends.
6. Inferiority complex
Some people tend to develop a sense of inferiority, and even look down on themselves, lack confidence, lack the courage to act, be timid, follow suit, and lack their own opinions. If this mentality is not overcome, it will wear down a person's unique personality.
7. Coward mentality
It is mainly seen in people who are not deeply involved in the world, have shallow experience, have an introverted personality, and are not good at speaking. Due to cowardice, they dare not express what they think is right in social interaction after careful consideration. This mentality can also be observed by others, resulting in a perception of oneself and a reluctance to become good friends.
