It is often said that when a man becomes rich, he becomes bad. In order to be fair or avoid indiscriminate killing of innocent people, the words "80%" should be added before the man becomes rich, because there are still some men with strong self-control who adhere to the loyalty of their marriage after becoming rich.
1、 Lose your goal in life, and use playing with women to stimulate the loss of your ideal life.
Someone once said to me that when society develops to a state where everyone has a house and a car, it will be the most ideal social state. "I immediately refuted the other party's point of view and asked the other party, when people's lives are left to enjoy without suffering, will the entire society experience a state of laziness, and as a result, more people will become decadent because their lives are too comfortable?"? Therefore, many people have the motivation to struggle from marriage to middle age because of the pressure of the RV. Many men may suddenly find themselves unable to find a way forward when their garage and savings are relatively stable. Without the motivation to struggle, they may feel bored in life. Therefore, the mistress becomes a behavior of these men seeking stimulation.
2、 Faced with the embrace of a gold worshipping woman, she lost at least her self-control in the face of temptation.
After a man has money, he will not only have pugs around him, but also have the temptation of beauty. In fact, these men also know that women's embrace is not about taking a fancy to him, but rather about the money in his pocket and his social status. However, people are originally a group that adores vanity, and they tend to be complacent in the face of various flatteries from women. They believe that women's flattery towards themselves is the most objective evaluation, unlike their wives, who are not as confused about the scenery. Therefore, in the face of temptation, I have lost my minimum self-control. Only when I am truly calculated can I realize the good intentions behind my wife's painstaking efforts. It's true that many men have lost themselves through flattery, which has led to many men's career being tripped up by extramarital affairs.
3、 Originally, there was a flower heart, and the money made this type of man's cheating capital complete.
The numerous romances of extramarital affairs all require money as capital, leading to some ordinary men wanting to cheat, but with a spare heart and insufficient strength. Once these men have a certain economic foundation, they will reveal their lustful nature. As long as they are known as beautiful women in their eyes, they will use money as a bait to approach. These men are actually the real scum men, because they rely on their own wealth to keep the affairs of infidelity high profile, and even ignore the feelings of their wives and children. Such men belong to the field of infidelity and remain indomitable. When a woman encounters such a man, don't expect the prodigal son to turn around, but instead turn around decisively and luxuriously.
4、 The distorted concept of honor and disgrace makes some men want to prove their strength by looking for a junior.
Men value their careers, on the one hand for their livelihood, and on the other hand for their face. Some men will distort their outlook on honor and disgrace after they have money, and believe that their abilities are directly proportional to whether they have a junior, and that a man without a junior is not considered a successful man. This type of man, changing a mistress is like changing clothes, and has a paranoid belief that being able to fool more mistresses is due to their own charm, and even feels that only in this way can they truly demonstrate that they are a successful man. For this reason, some men will show off how beautiful and obedient their mistress is in front of friends. These men always think that showing off like this is to prove that they are great. In fact, such men are clowns in the eyes of others.
5、 In order not to appear so special in front of friends, being led astray by lecherous friends.
"When a man has no money, not to mention going to colored places, I'm afraid eating out in restaurants is a luxury. However, when a man has money, he naturally meets some wealthy people, who often haunt nightclubs, bath centers, or massage parlors.". At this point, if one of your accompanying friends asks for a special service, and the other person is doing better than you, and you are likely to need the other person in business, what choice should you make? In order not to engage in "specialization", he was dragged down by a lecherous friend. "The first time you encounter a woman outside of marriage, you may feel guilty for your wife, but if you receive more special services, you become 'integrated'.".
6、 It is a human instinct to like the new and dislike the old. After meeting high-quality women, one cannot stop acting.
"It is a human instinct to like the new and dislike the old. For this reason, many people will formulate many rules and regulations about future marriage before getting married. However, when they encounter the opposite sex, the previously set rules and regulations will be broken, and with the determination to keep the marriage from beginning to end, they willingly enter the besieged city.". However, as people age, their level of appreciation constantly changes, and their hearts become greedy, they often encounter a woman who thinks she is more than ten times better than their wife at some stage in life. At this time, men will try to break the peace of marriage, and there is another psychological hint: Life is too short, and it is necessary to live again for real. Therefore, there is a desire to stop.