Sorting out relics and discovering that husband has a mistress: Why is the wife better than someone else's

The husband cheated, but the wife knew nothing about it. If it weren't for the death of her husband and the accidental discovery of her husband and lover in an intimate movie on Moto, she would still be kept in the dark. Not only that, but this lover is also the wife of someone else's family, who was chased and killed in bed during their relationship and provided compensation. During the inventory of the estate, it was also discovered that the husband gave the young mistress a luxurious mansion as a gift only to smile at Bona Beauty. Marriage Rules for Married Men>>

This reminds me of the news I saw recently, where an official wrote a guarantee letter to please his lover, guaranteeing that he would not touch his wife and how many relationships he must have with his lover within a week. Coincidentally, this charming lover is also someone else's wife. Why do men think other people's wives are good?

Women Should Do 8 Things Well, Husband Should Not cheat>>

Different psychological feelings

Couples who have been together for a long time develop a mentality of "living in an orchid room for a long time without smelling its fragrance", which is a factor of psychological saturation. Accustomed to the virtues of one's own wife. This psychological feeling makes it difficult for you to feel the beauty even if you are accompanied by Xi Shi every day. Every couple is married because of love, and before marriage, you will definitely feel that your wife is the cutest person in the world, so you will mobilize all your wisdom to pursue. Feeling that a wife is inferior to a person after marriage is just a psychological illusion. Seeing only the shortcomings of one's wife without seeing them, and seeing only the strengths of other women without seeing them, one naturally feels that one's wife is not as good as others, and there are always shortcomings.

Appreciation angle is different

Before each wife becomes a wife, in the eyes of her husband, all are advantages, even if they are shortcomings, they become lovely advantages. When a wife becomes a wife, everything she sees is a flaw, while the wives of other people see is a virtue. This is because the husband is strict with his wife, hoping that his wife is perfect, while treating others' wives with much tolerance. From this perspective, seeing a woman from someone else's house is naturally extremely cute. They are gentle, considerate, and beautiful, while their own wife lacks grace and lacks taste. This mentality of seeking perfection makes men habitually compare their wives' shortcomings to those of others' families, so the more they look at their wives, the more they feel worthless, and the more they look at their wives, the less envious they feel. A woman's four sentences lead to a man's infidelity>>

The eight most fragile types of marriages in reality>>

Absence makes the heart grow fonder

After a man is married, he gets along with his wife day and night, rubbing his ears and hair together. No matter how beautiful the scenery is, it feels ordinary. Just like an Apple phone, before buying it, all kinds of longing and rarity just arrived, and after a long time, it felt very ordinary. Without freshness, my wife's words and actions are completely visible, which makes me quite dissatisfied. However, other people's wives are shrouded in a mysterious veil, giving people a desire to explore and pursue. Due to a lack of in-depth understanding, there was no one looking under the flower lights in the fog, and the hazy nature beautified a lot. A man captures a fleeting moment of wonder as if it's all about the other person. Ambiguity produces beauty, distance produces beauty, because there is room for imagination, which makes people feel beautiful. And because the wife is too close, it makes people lose the desire to imagine and explore. As the saying goes, 'A familiar place has no scenery'.

Primitive attraction between men and women

The most fundamental aspect of engaging with other women outside of marriage is the mutual attraction between men and women, which is an instinct. A famous American psychologist said that the best person for men to confide in their emotions is women, and the best person for women to confide in their emotions is men. So, in chat rooms, we can always find pairs of men and women as if they have been paired up, diving into the water to chat. Of course, same-sex people also chat, but the depth and length of conversation between men and women are far less.