Post Date December, 03 2023
Question: After marriage, my husband and I have a good sex life. It was more than a year later that I found my husband had a "quirk". He seemed to prefer me to wear some clothes in my sexual life, such as some underwear or jacket, and didn't like me to take off. This makes me feel a little strange. I heard that some sexual psychopaths like this. I will be very excited when I see wearing some kind of clothes. So I suspect that my husband has this preference because of this reason.
However, he doesn't have to do it all the time. It just seems that he will be more excited. At first, I cooperated with him very much, but later, maybe it was my cooperation that made him satisfied. He sometimes asked me to wear some clothes he likes in his sexual life. I don't know how to deal with his request, because in my opinion, some clothes are very sexy, but some are actually very ordinary, but I don't know why they excite him.
So I began to doubt whether he regarded me as the "dream lover", which made me a little resistant, so sometimes I thought about refusing to cooperate with him. Can I ask if my husband's request is excessive? How should I treat it correctly?
Sexual preference cannot be regarded as "sexual perversion"
Everyone has their own sexual preferences, which cannot be considered as "sexual perversion". Otherwise, not everyone's behavior is abnormal, and sex will become the unified gymnastics of the whole country. Isn't it too boring? The husband likes you to wear different clothes to satisfy his visual enjoyment, and maybe there is sexual fantasy (even your "dream lover"). There is nothing wrong. It can be understood as a kind of sexual entertainment. As long as wearing that dress doesn't make you very disgusted and disgusted, I think it can be regarded as a game of shared entertainment.
