Post Date December, 02 2023
When feeling strong, it is unavoidable to want further contact. But sometimes, not everyone wants to have too much physical contact, and some people will even be very resistant to this behavior, which will inevitably lead to embarrassing rejection.
In the face of this situation, if you are serious, you will lose! Convince yourself that this is just a harmless joke in your heart, and you'd better laugh it off, otherwise you will be tied up and unable to get along with the other party normally! Here are some solutions that can be taken when intimacy is rejected:
1. You can blush, but you can't panic:
Calm down, calm down again. When the embarrassment suddenly appears, the instant blush is inevitable, but you must not panic. That is not only unhelpful, but also easy to make others feel weak.
2. Don't explain easily
The earlier you admit your fault, the easier it is to be misunderstood.
3. Be brave in self-deprecating
Since the embarrassing situation is inevitable, we should show enough courage to face the reality, or even directly challenge the embarrassing situation.
4. Pretend to be silly and put the tangible dilemma into the intangible ignorance.
Although we don't really want to be fools, what's wrong with adopting some special methods to get out of danger and solve difficulties in special times?
5. Evacuate the site quickly
If you can't afford to hide, it's the best policy to leave. If you really don't have the courage and ability to cope with embarrassment, your best choice is to leave the scene quickly, the sooner the better. For those who are naturally timid but extremely sensitive, anticipating the possibility of embarrassments in advance or leaving immediately when there is a slight sign of embarrassments is really a wonderful trick.
6. Take advantage of the situation
Advantages and disadvantages are always relative. It is not impossible to turn disadvantages into advantages as long as the key points are found.
7. Transfer embarrassment
There is the so-called pain removal method in medicine. When one kind of pain that is difficult to conquer is replaced by another kind of pain that is easy to conquer, the former kind of pain often gradually loses its original sense of pain under the effect of the latter kind of pain. This method is also applied to self-adjustment at awkward moments. However, it must be noted that the embarrassment you transfer should be an opportunity to make jokes in good faith.
8. Pretend to be mentally fragile
People generally sympathize with the weak. At the moment of embarrassment, you should immediately react excessively, either regretting or suffering. In short, you must make others look psychologically fragile, as if what happened just now has hurt your self-esteem excessively. Generally, people will not chase you after seeing your "tragedy", and the embarrassment will end
(Intern editor: Liu Ruichang)
