Social hidden rules for lifelong benefits
Don't rush to express yourself in the introduction, it is not a reflection of insightful thinking; Don't rush to deny others, harmonious coexistence is the way to survive. Living a lifetime is both easy and difficult. Look at these rules and benefit a lifetime!
Lifetime social hidden rules!
If you haven't seen it with your own eyes, there's no need to rush to prove it with your mouth.
2. For things you don't know, simply saying 'I don't know' is the easiest way.
If someone throws a stone at you, don't throw it back, keep it as the cornerstone for building a tall building.
4. People are popular and have many rights and wrongs. If you can't fight against 'right and wrong', it's better to temporarily give up 'being popular' and take a step back as a way forward.
5. If you can tolerate it, endure it, change it if you can't, and recognize it if you can't change it.
6. Slow down in times of trouble, stop talking, and many things will become clear.
7. Emit your own light, but do not blow out others' lights.
8. Don't hold grudges against villains, they have their own enemies.
9. Don't be blindly proud or deliberately insignificant.
10. Everyone always has secrets they don't want to disclose, don't force each other hard.
There are some things that many people are doing, and if you don't do them, it doesn't mean you're wrong.
12. It is better to seek God than to seek others, it is better to seek oneself than to seek others, and if one fails to seek oneself, one must seek others.
13. Only when the fruit is ripe can it be picked, and only when the thinking is calm can it be fully expressed.
14. Don't argue about simple things, don't worry about complex things, don't speak when angry, and don't make decisions when angry.
When you realize that you are wrong, you are still right.
16. It is better to remain silent like a fool than to prove oneself to be a fool just by speaking up.
17. Silence is a silent storm that fights back against shamelessness, while anger is an effective 'self harm' against external humiliation.
18. Don't treat yourself as someone, don't treat yourself too much.
19. If you have enemies in your heart, all the world is enemies; Invincible in the heart, invincible in the world.
20. Those who want to win will first overcome themselves, while those who want to lower themselves will lower themselves first.
Many people think they are thinking when restructuring their biases.
22. You cannot judge whether others are good or bad, but you can be a good person yourself.
23. "There is no perfect person, only the end", so there must be shortcomings.
24. Suffer the wind to remain calm for a moment, and allow everything to clear up.
25. If there is a move, please make a clear move. If there is no move, don't take action.
26. Rather than saying that others cause you pain, it's better to say that your own cultivation is not enough.
27. If I promise not to be trusted, my past friends will not betray me; I promise not lightly, so I will not betray others.
28. If you don't know the goods, you will be temporarily poor; If you don't know someone, you will suffer for a lifetime.
29. Don't deceive others, because the people you can deceive are those who believe in you.
30. The self-awareness of a fool lies in his ability to cleverly utilize his foolishness.
31. People who are filled with their own opinions and ideas will never hear the voices of others.
32. People who know you may not necessarily be those who care about you, perhaps they are just smart people.
33. Don't rush to express yourself, it's not a manifestation of insightfulness; Don't rush to deny others, harmonious coexistence is the way to survive.