Smart women are not 'women who can make a living'
Old people used to like to say that women must know how to live.
What is the concept of living a life? In their view, it is nothing more than being able to do household chores, manage the house, have children, be meticulous in budget, and not extravagant and wasteful. Being able to do household chores has become synonymous with being a good woman since ancient times, even in today's era, many people still use it to criticize women.
But we have really seen many, many cases, such as a woman who quit her job in order to make her husband work outside and take care of household chores every day. In the end, she turned yellow and thin, becoming a yellow faced woman. And my husband really worked hard and succeeded, but instead he got a cheaper price for the young mistress outside.
This is not a fantasy story, but something that happens to us every day, so the most important thing for women has already changed.
What is the most important thing for women now?
Make yourself more rich and meaningful. So, you don't need to always do household chores, you need to learn more.
It's about making yourself successful and more professional. So, you don't need to always do household chores, you need to work more.
It makes you look better and more attractive to men. So, you don't need to always do household chores, you need to take care of yourself more.
It's about making yourself more popular and having more friends. So, you don't need to do household chores all the time, you need to socialize more.
Do you understand? The social norms of the past kept women at home, gradually withering and aging. Because the more unbearable a woman is, the safer it is for a man.
But this era has changed. As a woman, why should we make ourselves a victim of our family? Women can go out, become better, and spend more time on themselves instead of becoming consumables for men.
So, you need to make new arrangements for your life.
This does not mean that you no longer need to contribute to your family. In fact, everyone in the family should contribute, and women are often the ones who give more.
The life of future women should be based on one tenth and nine tenths principles.
Spend one tenth of your time doing household chores and contributing to your family.
And the other nine tenths of the time should be dedicated to making oneself better.
In other words, in your life, only one tenth of the time is allowed to be disheveled and buried in work. And for the other nine tenths of the time, one must become elegant, radiant, and like a princess.
The premise of being a true woman is to dote on yourself. If you don't even love yourself enough, who else can you expect to hurt you?