Post Date December, 03 2023
With a sense of responsibility for marriage and women, men will consciously learn to do it. Smart men understand that treating their women well is the cornerstone of a good marriage.
1、 Understand her, understand her heart
Women are vanity by nature, but most of them pay more attention to the harmony of feelings and the echo of their hearts. They are eager to be with men, and respect, pleasure and happiness coexist. So smart men will spend more time in "busy" work (in fact, many husbands are not really busy, but pretend to be busy) to explore and experience a woman's inner world, and pay more attention to the spiritual communication with their wives. They often know how to do this:
1. Understand and support his wife's hobbies, appreciate her and praise her.
2. Take more time to chat with her and do things she likes.
3. Show concern for her activities that day. Pay attention to the books she reads and the people she contacts.
4. Respect her and do not force her in the name of "husband".
2、 Concern and consideration beyond material matters
Chinese men are used to measuring their contribution to the family with material and money, and are also used to taking material as the only way to care for family members, thus ignoring the real needs of the family. They don't know that there are many ways to care and be considerate.
However, women who are naturally emotional will yearn for men to send flowers, greeting cards and souvenirs like western men after marriage, and will also say "I love you forever". Chinese men are generally unwilling to express themselves in this way. They will also tell their wives that it is unnecessary to do so. Our money is common. What's the meaning of those forms? I will send you a BMW in the future. The goal is really exciting, but there is no moving process. The really smart men understand that many things are just a matter of hands. In a word, they will gain a lot of happiness from "men" after they understand that doing a little "women" things. So they know:
1. Don't care about the value of gifts, but increase the number of gifts (regardless of the size of the gift);
2. When your wife is in a low mood, please comfort her instead of being impatient or indifferent.
3. Kiss and hug your wife often to make her feel your love.
4. She felt tired and tired, so she offered to help and do what she could.
