Slow ejaculation does not necessarily mean strong ability. How to obtain the best sexual time

A woman believes that I am 32 years old and the same age as her husband. We have been married for three years and have a good relationship, but our sexual life is not satisfactory. Mainly because he needs to have sex every time (at least 45 minutes) to ejaculate. I can see that he also wants to reach the peak, but it seems that his strength doesn't come from his heart. Every time he gets tired, he sweats, and sometimes he has to use his hands to help ejaculate. What's going on here?

Slow ejaculation in males is not associated with strong sexual ability

If many women complain that their husbands are fast shooters, and there are also women who complain that men are slow shooters, they cannot bear it and it is very painful. Indeed, about 8% of men have difficulty and delay in ejaculation, with twitching lasting 20-30 minutes or even longer each time always exhausting their wives and causing their temper to become increasingly intense. Actually, a few minutes for the wife, at most eleven or twelve minutes is enough. Although they also accelerate the ejaculation process by enhancing fantasies and other methods, the effect is limited. The wives of men who do not ejaculate not only work hard, but their dreams of having children will also not come true.

Firstly, it depends on whether the conflict between the two parties has really lasted for a long time. Men who have lasted for a long time but have not performed well, that is to say, if they have not truly caught the itch of women, they will not make the other party happy. Because these men often don't know how to taste the rose like fragrance and keep up with each other's rhythm, they only focus on themselves, spend time on how to achieve their orgasm, and don't care about the other person's mood. To sing the duet of sexual life well, cooperation between both parties is far more important than personal skills. Only by doing well on their own, that is to say, gaining great motivation in paying attention, savoring, inducing, and experiencing the other person's reactions, can men open the door to orgasm earlier. In the efforts of men, they actually demonstrate their charm and charm to each other.

Secondly, men may have orgasms, and middle-aged men are particularly prone to such problems, but young men rarely have such difficulties. After middle age, male erectile ability decreases, and the hardness of the penis after erection is poor. The frictional stimulation caused by tics is not strong, and stronger stimulation is often needed. In addition to physical issues, it is also important for both parties to have a harmonious and tacit relationship. To solve this problem, both parties need to work together. Technology needs to be honed, practice needs to increase talent. The difficulty of orgasm in men is like facing a deep trench, requiring a brave leap. The more timid they become, the harder it becomes to soar. The more they think, the heavier the psychological burden, and the worse the situation becomes. At this point, you can first reduce the difficulty and not demand immediate success. It is necessary to create an environment where there is not much psychological pressure. You can start jumping from narrower and shallower trenches first, and then naturally feel less nervous. Usually, you start by masturbating yourself, gradually exploring and mastering techniques to accelerate your reaction. Then, in front of your partners, you can observe from a distance to a close distance, directly participating in and helping men masturbate. Finally, your partners can help men masturbate when their penis approaches the vaginal opening, The gradual training program of male ejaculation is often an effective solution.