Post Date December, 03 2023
What is the spare tire? It is the spare tire of a car and also the spare boyfriend/girlfriend of a person. No matter who you are, you don't want to become a spare tire, but becoming a spare tire is not something you can decide on. Some men actually treat you as a spare tire, but you don't know it yourself. What details can you tell if he sees you as a spare tire?
1. Not willing to appear in your circle of friends
Generally speaking, once a relationship is established, two people will inevitably be in a hurry to show off their love and get bored with their social media every day. However, if a man only sees you as someone to pass the time with, even if there are many sweet words on weekdays, he will not want you to appear in his social media as a girlfriend. Faced with your doubts, he always finds various reasons, and the reason is the same as the previous one.
2. He refuses to promise and always procrastinates
Obviously, it's already ambiguous and everything has arrived in bed, but when it comes to determining the relationship, he's always procrastinating? What ex injury is too deep, why are we in such a hurry, we can't be together for the time being, I'm used to living a comfortable life like the wind, blablablablablabla, for any reason, I just don't explain it to you clearly. They know that women in love can persist as long as they give some hope, but you don't know, you will only get deeper and deeper, without knowing it when it comes to being a spare tire.
3. He never responds to your phone calls and WeChat in a timely manner
A man who treats you as a spare tire rarely proactively contacts you, and even if you look for him, he may not respond to you in a timely manner. Especially if you send a WeChat message, he may simply pretend not to see, be busy, or not receive it, and then delay answering, or be bored before replying.
4. Sometimes it's hot and cold for you
After making an appointment with you, he may not contact you for several days, but you realize that you have fallen in love with him uncontrollably. It's like three autumn days without seeing him. When a man says he loves you and can not contact you for several days, congratulations, you have been included in his spare tire list.
5. I don't want to be close to you
He holds hands with you and hugs you goodbye, but after that, he will push you away and say that this development is too fast, and he is not ready yet. You are not like lovers at all, but rather like friends. It is obvious that he is only dating because of loneliness.
6. Unwilling to disclose you
If a man is using you, he is unlikely to introduce you to his friends. Even if you have a few mutual friends, do those friends know that you are his girlfriend? Seeing his friends, no one knows that you are his girlfriend, and sometimes "status" is also very important.
