Although marriage and love are indispensable things in our life, it is not a simple thing for male friends to get along well with their beloved women. Xiaobian reminds everyone that in order to grasp their love, men must not do the following things in love.
1. Talk to your woman
Women are most afraid of men gossiping about her, especially when they judge her indiscriminately, which is taboo in love. If you don't like the other person at all, either they are not beautiful enough or they are not diligent enough, I suggest you move the mountain as soon as possible. Men who want to transform women should first evaluate whether they have the ability and ability.
2. Criticize women's parents
It's just like you don't like others criticizing your parents, and women can't accept it. You should know that a woman has lived with her parents for at least 20 years, while you have only been with her for a few years. If you mention her parents, then she can definitely assume that your parents must not have educated you well.
3. Haggle over every ounce
If you invite women to have dinner together for the first time, please bring enough RMB. The beautiful woman at the next table also ordered some post-meal snacks after a big meal of abalone and bird's nest, and even a rose from the flower boy. When you eat up two plates of fried noodles at your table, they will only stare. That woman will definitely think you are an idiot. You should know that investment is always proportional to return.
4. Shortsighted
If a man has the hobby of aunt and sister-in-law and likes to waste his work energy talking about the extramarital affairs of the Lao Wang family today and the teacher-student relationship of the Lao Li family tomorrow, then such a man can't have a future.
5. Leave the housework to women
As a man, you should take the initiative to share the housework for women, or do a little help to women when they do housework, so that women will feel a little balance and comfort in their hearts. If you have male chauvinism and firmly believe that men should not do housework, please hire a nanny! Wife is painful after marriage, not to clean up for you.
6. Make decisions to help relatives and friends without authorization
A man and a woman are going to have a wedding next week, but a man gives all the deposit of the wedding banquet to his friends to pay off the gambling debt without informing the woman, and also tells the woman what is wrong, which is definitely a typical individualist and has no family concept at all. Even if someone else marries you, such a man will not survive sooner or later.