Women have the illusion that men cannot be pleased. From a woman's perspective, men seem to expect women to be omnipotent.
He wants her to be quiet, but funny; To be gentle and sweet, but also capable of men; Take care of the family and children, and be able to earn money outside. Women can list a list of unequal treatment that they feel cannot meet every requirement of a man.
Women want men to play four different roles - hero, friend, playmate, and lover. Men, too, want women to play six different roles: lover, cheerleader, mother, friend, trainer, and capable adult. However, men's needs vary from person to person. Let's take a closer look at these six roles.
1. Valentine
A man wants to have a hot lover who only wants to be intimate with him. Men may fantasize about having sex with different women, but most men know this is unrealistic, but they hope that women can be wild and creative to make up for this lack.
2. Cheerleaders
When men strive for personal achievement and value, they need someone to encourage them to move forward. Because men are not very capable of establishing intimate relationships, it is important to know that someone will support them behind their backs when they encounter obstacles.
3. Mother
A man wants someone to take care of him, someone who loves him and takes care of him instead of his mother (although now that he's grown up, he shouldn't be like a little boy anymore). He hopes to have his mother take care of him when he is sick, someone help him find the keys, and (although he never says so) help him heal the pain caused by male training.
4. Friends
A man hopes to have a partner who can share the burden of daily life with him, a close friend who can help him deal with problems, make decisions, and face daily challenges, and share common preferences with friends.
5. Animal trainer
Men rely on women to act as their interpersonal bridges, enabling rebellious individuals to communicate with others. A woman is a bonding agent in interpersonal relationships and a bridge between other couples. She is responsible for inviting invitations, providing entertainment, and establishing interpersonal relationships. Some men also need women to teach them social etiquette, help them dress up, decorate their homes, and make the house feel like home. Men often face a dilemma between intimacy and alienation. They know that they should not be trapped, because being domesticated means losing their ability to fight.
"But men are well aware that they must harness this wild nature and lead it to the right path. Their desire is stronger than their refusal, which is why many men are eager to marry or remarry. They do not want to be alone in the cold caves.".
6. A capable adult
A man also wants someone he respects, depends on, and appreciates. Whether she is a housewife or a professional woman, she should always be able, shrewd, and efficient. He hopes to be proud of her. Perhaps he will take pride in her knitting, cooking, degree, career achievements, or ability to bring up children, because it can make him feel proud of her, proud of her, and able to rely on her. Having a shrewd and capable woman will make him feel much easier because she can share the pressure of his career with him.