Post Date December, 02 2023
In recent years, with the continuous exchange of domestic and foreign cultures, western culture has been introduced into China in a large number, so Chinese people are more open than before in terms of gender health. Especially in some movies and TV dramas, the number of pornographic clips is increasing, stimulating people's eyes. Recently, some experts pointed out that women's sexual psychology must go through six stages. What are they?
1. Lip stage
From birth to one year old. In this period, the satisfaction of the baby's sexual pleasure mainly relies on the lips, and the baby obtains pleasure in the sucking of milk. At this stage, if the lip needs are not met or too much, the lip type personality will be generated. This person has a strong sense of dependence and is greedy.
2. Anal stage
From about one year old to two years old. At this stage, the excretory function becomes the main goal of the baby's sexual pleasure, and the baby gets great pleasure from the excretory activity. The main task of this stage is to cultivate children's self-control ability through regular urination training. If sexual psychology conflicts at this stage, it will cause anal personality. Such people are either too presumptuous and rude, or extremely stingy and conservative.
3. Genital period
Also known as sexual bud stage, from two to three years old. Until the initial stage of the genital period, the baby's sexual energy is directed to itself, and his happiness is self-joy. Significant changes have taken place in the later stage of the genital period. Children begin to point their sexual energy to external objects, boys' sexual desire to their mothers, called Oedipus complex, and girls' desire to their fathers. When a boy's desire points to his mother, he always unconsciously competes with his father for love and is hostile to his father. This conflict led to another complex - castration complex. The little boy was afraid of his father, afraid that he would punish his own oedipus feelings and castrate his own genitals. The little boy then gave up the oedipus complex and turned to assimilation with his father. Girls' sexual psychological development has also roughly gone through a process from love father to giving up love father, and assimilation with their mother. At this stage, children's personality, gender identity, and moral conscience began to form, which is the most important stage of life development.
4. Latency
After experiencing the Oedipus complex, children's sexual psychology enters the incubation period. During this period, children's sexual desire remains silent, indifferent to the opposite sex, and most of them look for same-sex partners when playing.
5. Adolescence
In puberty, the maturation of gonads increases libido impulse. If the psychological conflict in the genital period is successfully resolved, the individual will turn libido energy to someone outside the family and start mature heterosexuality.
6. Reproductive period
As long as we can successfully solve the conflicts in all the above sexual and psychological stages, the individual can reach a perfect state. He is mature in sex, social relations and mental health, has a strong self, and can control inappropriate sexual impulses. Freud believed that there were not many healthy people in this sense.
However, some experts do not agree with this view. They believe that infants have no sexual psychology, let alone sexual desire. Xiaobian believes that there is still some reason for this. After all, all aspects of infancy are not fully developed, so it is too early to mention the topic of sex at this time.
