It is said that men and women are different types of creatures from different planets, but is there really such a big difference? We women are really not difficult to understand, but boys are rarely willing to spend time getting to know us. From now on, I will gradually summarize some common psychological differences between men and women that often occur in love, hoping to be helpful to everyone.
Girls' perception of muscular men
I don't know where men learn that women find muscle men hot, but this is definitely not true!
So women don't like muscular men? Biceps, pectoralis major, and broad shoulders should make women feel secure. Men do sit-ups in groups not for fun, they know that many women like six pack abs. But there is a dividing line between being sexy and annoying. The muscles developed by fitness men are too excessive, and their body deformation is too exaggerated - some can be said to be strange - but their success disgusts the girls. I don't know where men learned that women find muscle men hot, but believe me, that's not the case.
I admit, this is a double standard
We women need longer time to prepare. Dressing up, complaining, and spending two hours in the bathroom are basically commonplace, and we enjoy it. If she is a person who leaves easily, she may not notice whether you pay attention to your appearance. But some men spend too much time in the gym and rarely take a serious look at their partners. They are obsessed with their body shape and turn a blind eye to their partners. Isn't this putting the cart before the horse?
Please don't let your veins explode
Many men are so obsessed with themselves that they have forgotten what attracts women. The veins on the limbs, neck, and even forehead are too obvious, like a sausage that is about to burst! This really won't make girls interested in you.
We are puzzled by your strange body proportions
Fitness athletes often stack large muscles on their small waist. We can understand that many men like women's big breasts and thin waists, but this aesthetic cannot be interchanged between genders. A wide shoulder definitely makes a woman feel, but a wide shoulder is not equivalent to a huge and strange shoulder. Rather than having well-developed muscles, it is more important to have a balanced body shape. If you enjoy planned fitness, don't feel like we're targeting you. Women like a fit.
Think of Matthew McConaughey in Drums or Brad Pitt in Fight Club - slim and sexy, not big and scary. We want people who can hold us, not those who break our arms when hugging.
We like to focus on appearance, but we don't get obsessed with it
A good-looking figure unintentionally earns enough points in front of girls. But when you are infatuated with your muscles and ask a girl if their muscles are large enough, then they are not charming at all. Make sure you have a normal body shape, your curves are reasonable, there is no smell on your body, and your hair is properly combed. This is the foundation of whether a person cares about their appearance.
Smooth skin is very sexy, wrinkled skin is not as attractive
There is nothing more enjoyable than rubbing your boyfriend's body with your hands. But imagine if his veins burst and his muscles expand, then there would be no sense of pleasure. The tight chest and bulging arm muscles are really sexy, but if my veins burst, I really dare not take action, afraid that I will hurt you and you will pick me up and beat me up!
Women like men who look good and can take care of themselves. But just as men don't like women with heavy makeup and a pair of double peaks with F-cups, women also don't like men who spend 10 hours in front of the gym mirror every day. Excessive vanity is not considered a charismatic quality for anyone. So, spend more time getting out of the gym and enjoying your life.