Post Date December, 03 2023
Tips for dealing with "old man":
You may think that there is nothing to do with the "old man" and you can only let it go? Actually, it's not so bad. Here are some things you can do to satisfy your eagerness to try:
1. Pay attention to what you wear on the date.
Don't let him feel that he is having a candlelight dinner with his daughter. When he goes to places such as restaurants and cinemas, he cares more about the image than you do. You don't have to dress up too mature, but don't look too naive or avantgarde. It would be nice to wear simple and generous clothes with a little light makeup. Wearing floral perfume is the safest choice, especially for men over 40 years old, the sweet floral perfume always meets their appetite. In short, the principles to remember are generosity, simplicity and elegance.
2. Remember his birthday and choose a gift with good taste.
For an old man, having a birthday is something that has not happened for a long time. And when he meets you, he can unexpectedly relive the birthday celebration, which is a very warm thing. Birthday gifts don't have to be expensive, because he who is stronger than you doesn't really care how expensive the gift is. The key is to be attentive, practical and in line with his taste. A birthday cake is not necessary, but candlelight dinners and gifts are indispensable. A pipe, a bottle of perfume, a tie and even a notepad will always be a love gift with you.
3. Learn to make dessert.
Don't worry, you can't cook. In fact, compared with young men, many old men don't care if their girlfriend can cook. They have seen a variety of women and know that only a good wife and mother is the best partner. They can not care whether you can cook a big meal, but you should be smart. Even if you can't cook, three meals a day depend on takeout, but you must also learn some good desserts. Don't leave his kitchen empty all year round. When watching TV together in the evening, you can treat him with your prepared dessert, which will make you a taste girl in his eyes. He is not a yellow-faced woman who cooks everyday, and he can catch his mouth with food. "Catch a man's taste with food to capture his heart" is absolutely applicable to old men.
4. Disappear and leave time for each other.
You must set aside a little time to disappear from him every week. You can do a spa by yourself or have fun with your friends. In short, you need to inform him that there is something you can't accompany him tonight before he comes home from work on a certain day every week or every two weeks. This is the time to give yourself freedom, and it is also the time to give him freedom. Believe me, he will not watch TV alone at home because of your absence. He will also be happy because he has his own free time, and he will be worried because he does not have your company. When you finally come home, he will greet you with the warmest embrace.
5. Think of him as a teacher.
He always has some knowledge you don't know, or some hobby you don't know. Don't ignore it because you don't understand it. If you can show interest in it from time to time and ask him some relevant questions from time to time, he will explain it to you with great sense of achievement. Of course, you don't have to expect how professional you can learn from him. But at least when he explains, you should show curiosity and listen carefully. This is something that makes him feel particularly fulfilled and cared about. He will feel that you care about his affairs and are willing to join them. Don't worry. After the explanation, he will not really test what you have learned like a teacher. So, if you are really not interested, don't worry about it. Just pretend to listen. If you really don't understand, don't have to go to the bottom. In fact, he doesn't expect to really teach you anything.
6. Learn to share his culture.
A difference of more than 10 years is a difference of more than 10 years. In the present era, even a difference of 3 years will have a generation gap. So if you don't want to be too different from him mentally, take the initiative to share the culture of his age. Listen to the songs he likes to listen to, and help him choose them to sing when karaoke. He will be happy because of your "knowing". Look at the books and movies he has read. When he mentions it casually, you can naturally "plug in" without being confused. He will feel warm because of your "knowing". You don't need to study all this deeply. Just know it.
