Post Date April, 15 2023
After breaking up, it's better not to contact each other. After all, we have to start our own lives. As the saying goes, out of sight and out of mind, the situation may be a bit small. However, I really haven't had the idea of making friends with my old love, because I think it's better to settle down and not be friends. Don't let your current or husband misunderstand anything. Alright, let's take a look at this article together with the editor!!
1. Facing with a smile is more intimate than turning a blind eye
Even if you completely disappear from each other's lives after breaking up, there is no chance or reason to intersect anymore, which does not hinder giving each other a simple smile or nod as a friendly signal when encountering each other accidentally on the road. When interacting with strangers, the kind smiles they exude can greatly reduce their awkwardness and quickly resolve the awkward atmosphere.
You can also take this step between each other, with just a simple action of gently raising the corners of your lips and conveying a friendly smile to each other. As long as you do this, your frozen relationship will immediately improve significantly. The past barriers will disappear in a flash, and the distance between each other will be much closer. It's better to have one more friend than one more enemy, right?
2. Clear distinction between public and private, still a good partner working together
If you start developing an office relationship, you should be mentally prepared to take responsibility for the consequences of the relationship at the beginning. In an office romance, the most challenging situation is to put aside emotional factors and still face the ex boyfriend in the same office day and night as if nothing had happened.
Emotions are not a powerful reason to hinder work. Regardless of the situation between you in real life, it is important to always maintain a professional spirit in the workplace, distinguish between public and private, and strive to achieve career cooperation. This is not only a manifestation of dedication to work attitude, but also a powerful proof of blocking others' gossip!
3. Treat him as a man to gain a deeper understanding
Some people are like this, it's great to be friends, but as lovers, they never get along perfectly. Perhaps after engaging in enough intimate contact when it comes to relationships, it turns out that the other person is not the ideal one, and then breaking up is undoubtedly the most suitable choice. Taking a step back and returning to a friend relationship, getting rid of an awkward romantic relationship, will make both people feel relieved.
After becoming a friend again, he may open up his heart and reveal many truths that he couldn't tell you when he was in love. Understanding these facts can actually help you get to know men more deeply and be an effective reference for other romantic relationships in the future.
4. What's wrong with having a common friend as a matchmaker and letting go of past grievances?
Sometimes the obstacles that cannot be taken are not from others, but from one's own inner reserve and hesitation. If you have common friends, if these friends are very understanding, actively help you eliminate misunderstandings, and strive to restore your friendship. So let's take advantage of the situation and continue to be friends with him.
It's better to go out and have fun with a large group of people than to be alone in an empty boudoir, right? A world without dislikes and misunderstandings is the most beautiful.
It indicates that you have become magnanimous and mature, indicating that you have become magnanimous and mature
5. Being friends with him indicates that you have become magnanimous and mature
After breaking up, it was a childhood practice to make a clean break. As an adult with life experience, one can view the ups and downs of a relationship with a more peaceful perspective.
More often than not, breaking up is a new outlet for each other's lives, rather than a final farewell after deep hatred. It is not difficult to coexist peacefully after breaking up and face each other with a tolerant and magnanimous heart.
