Post Date November, 16 2024
The teacher asked her daughter and father to take a shower together!
Topic initiator details BB
My daughter is 1 year old and 10 months old. The day before yesterday, she pointed to her chest and asked me what it was. I stayed there without any response, no psychological preparation, and no answer. Later on, I called the teacher and suggested that I tell her directly whether it's the chest or the breasts, and then tell her who can touch them, such as doctors, parents, and others who cannot touch them. So, I asked the teacher about babies again. I told the teacher that while my daughter was taking a shower and my father was taking a shower, they were looking through the ventilation window under the door. I usually ask her to leave and tell the baby that this behavior is impolite. The teacher said it's best to have your daughter and father take a shower together to avoid premature love due to curiosity in the future. The male and female infants in kindergarten use the restroom together. The teacher said that if a girl has any questions, they will directly tell me that her daughter is a boy's reproductive organ and will not let her avoid it. In fact, there were also suggestions in books that parents and babies take a shower together. Do you have any
Opponent: Ah! Wash it together, it's too much.
Liang_ Xu: I won't let my daughter and father take a shower together. It is unacceptable to let children understand sex too early. Children are interested in sexual organs (which is similar to babies being interested in their own hands), and my personal opinion is that they are interested in this interest
Eileen's mother: This educational method is really bold! But I really can't accept it now. If such education is truly beneficial for children's future growth! I believe that the applicability of teaching methods should complement the overall environment!
Seeking Dream Garden: In the mandatory reading for parents, we can see the discussion of children's early problems. Some children are interested in their parents' genitals, but later on, when their parents did this and said something, the child really didn't want to peek. This may take until the baby is three or four years old. To be honest, I cannot accept it myself. In contrast, I like to tell children with photos from books.
Sweet Honey: To be frank, there may be better things than hiding, but if you let your daughter and father take a shower together, how did your daughter feel when she was young? Becoming a father is actually very sorry. My home is so sweet, I always declare when I wear clothes. Girls change clothes, men can't see!
Haohao Mom: Gender characteristics, I tell the child. However, within his understanding (from the book), such physical education is not yet feasible for me. It's not about snooping, but about habits.
Agreeing faction: The method is very good and effective!
Yuan514: I have nothing. I did the same. My son used to like to secretly watch us take a shower, so I simply asked him to wash together, but now he doesn't even look. However, this method can only be used now. I don't think it can be used even larger.
Wxgp: I also think this teacher is great. The younger the child, the simpler it is, and there is no need to consider complexity, but adults tend to be distorted when dealing with this aspect.
BB: Yes, yesterday I told my husband not to use it. I'm sorry, I also think so. When we were young, it seemed like we didn't have anything at all, so now many girls have premature love, abortion, and no safety measures, and it's themselves who get hurt. I have seen such educational methods before, but no one is certain, so I dare not do so. In fact, organs are like the Five Senses, which everyone has and there is no mystery. The less the child shows it to her, the more she wants to see it, and she becomes rebellious. It's okay. A mother here has already done this. They are more avant-garde. Since it's decided, let's do it now
Fsting: I don't think there's any problem. Especially when the child was young, my father and I never avoided waiting for the child. We also washed together, so the child now knows what boys have and what girls have. Of course, if the child grows up, the son will tell us. The kindergarten my son plans to go to implements three baths in the summer. The sun is abundant, the water is abundant, and so on. Children take off their clothes and only wear pants. Men and women do morning exercises together on the playground and go swimming together. I think it's great. However, I heard that many people do not accept it.
Sharp BB Mom: I've been taking a shower with my family! My son is really not interested in these things, he thinks everything is normal!
I am Meier. We came out when our son was young and didn't intentionally make him avoid it, so we always took him to take a shower. After entering kindergarten, we gradually instilled a sense of gender. Moreover, he also discovered the difference between himself and his female classmates at school. When he came back, he said that the girl squatted down and tied her braids. At this point, I began to tell him: you have grown up, you are a man, your mother is a woman, we cannot take a shower together, and you cannot watch your mother change clothes. Otherwise, he will gradually understand that Shanghai children are very shy. A few days ago, I heard how he was born, and I officially told him. I have found that things nowadays have a strong ability to accept and understand a lot of knowledge.
