Post Date December, 03 2023
My name is Cai Cai, and I am only 27 years old this year. My husband has completely lost his sexual function, and we have been married for three years without even having a child.
My husband and I are classmates in college. When he was in college, he was handsome and sunny, his academic performance was good, he played basketball very well, and he could also write very beautiful calligraphy. In liberal arts colleges with many girls, such a boy was definitely the target of girls' pursuit. Therefore, at that time, I could only silently like him in my heart, but I dared not risk the big criticism of the whole school to pursue him. But who could have imagined that he would leave so many beautiful girls chasing after him behind, but only to fall in love with me who is not outstanding in appearance and lacks any talent?
After four years in college, I feel that my greatest achievement is not in studying, but in having him truly. I have always been unable to believe that he really likes me, so I am very afraid to hold hands with him, let alone have intimate behavior. At that time, most of my classmates who were in love would rent a house outside, but I never kissed him because I always thought he might just be teasing me and that his liking for me was just a dream for me. He didn't blame me at all, but instead cherished me even more, saying that I was a silly girl worth cherishing.
My classmates and family all say that I am a lucky and foolish girl because after graduating from college, we both found good jobs. In the same city, in order to save on living expenses and prove that he is sincere to me, he proposed to me the second year after graduation. We got married, and until then, we had always been the most hand in hand. It was only on the night of our wedding that we truly had intimate contact, and the feeling of timidity and shyness still makes me think of it as beautiful.
My husband is a very outstanding person who knows how to work hard. Although he has only graduated for four years, he has already established a foothold in the company and has a bright future. Because his year-end performance was very good, we both worked for two years and took out a loan to buy a house. In order to repay the loan earlier and help me live a better life, he also used his strengths to do part-time work related to calligraphy and art in addition to his work. He was often busy until midnight, and even used weekends to sell his written Spring Festival couplets on the street during last year's Spring Festival.
Although we don't have a good economic foundation yet and our lives are gradually improving, what's even more rare is that our relationship is really good. In the past few years of getting married, we have hardly had any arguments, and our love has made me a bit incredulous. It's said that couples get tired of being together for a long time, but we really don't get tired of it at all. As long as we have time, we always get tired of being together, and it's not enough. We cook and eat at home every day. On the one hand, to save expenses and pay off the loan early, on the other hand, he wants to personally cook for me, and I am also willing to do laundry and cooking for him.
He is the only child in the family who has hardly experienced hardship since childhood. However, after we got married, he learned to cook and wash clothes, and he also did well in household chores. Although he comes from a good family and his parents were willing to give us money to buy a house and a car when we got married, he refused. He said that we create our own lives and have no right to let our parents suffer for us. Although I was saddled with a mortgage to buy a house and didn't have a car to drive, with such a motivated husband, I feel particularly happy and not afraid of any hardship. I know our days will soon improve.
But who knew that there would really be unexpected events one day. Last May Day, we went hiking together, and he accidentally rolled down the slope when a protruding stone hit his crotch. He endured the pain for several days, thinking that after two days of rest, he would be fine. However, after more than a week, it still felt very painful, and there was no sensation in that area. After going to the hospital for examination, the results made us both dumbfounded. His private area seemed to have been severely injured, and the doctor said it might affect his sexual life.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
