We have been married for almost five years, and over the past five years, I have been treating my husband with all my heart and soul, taking care of this family. My husband is young and promising. At the age of 35, he has his own company. In order to take care of his daily life and our baby, I gave up my position as the company's administrative director and stayed at home as a housewife. My baby is four years old, lively and lovely. No matter how tired or bitter it is, as long as I see the baby smiling at me, my mood immediately improves.
I manage my family in an orderly manner, and my husband provides him with a good environment after work, which can help him relax both physically and mentally. As time goes by, my youth is also lost. It is said that after a woman turns 25, her skin begins to relax. I deeply understand that the spots on her face continue to appear, making me dare not look in the mirror. I'm too lazy to take care of myself, as I keep my doors closed all day. I overlooked that when marriage enters a period of fatigue, men's hearts will change. My husband's increasing spirit, dressed in suits and shoes all day, is a talented person.
Friends remind me that your sacrifice may not necessarily make your husband grateful. Don't you hold back when you take care of your children at home, grand administrative director? I didn't think too much, just wanted to take care of my family, and besides, I'm not short of money to spend. When my girlfriend left, she reminded me that men change when they have money, which made me feel uneasy. I secretly observed my husband and did not find any abnormalities in him. At the annual classmate gathering, he would bring me with him because he was not strong enough to drink, so he would bring me to help him block the drink. But when it was time for the party this year, he didn't take me with him. Instead, he let me take care of the children at home. He was too busy with work and had to go back to work overtime to show off. That day, the child had a fever, and I didn't care, so he let him go on his own.
He had just left for less than two hours when I received a message on WeChat. After clicking on it, I found a photo of my husband and a woman. Upon closer inspection, it turned out to be his little secretary. What kind of situation is this? I was so anxious that I asked my classmates to keep an eye on me and see what little tricks they were doing. The picture of the little secretary drinking for her husband and affectionately talking in his ear was taken and sent to me by my classmates one by one. I saw a cold sweat all over me, and when he left, he didn't explain to me that he would take someone over, and he was still a woman.
He miscalculated. His secret was not allowed to drink. After a few drinks, he lost consciousness and fainted in his arms. He took this opportunity to hold the secret and left the scene, but was stopped by his classmates and drank heavily. After drinking, he played a drunken frenzy, claiming that his reason for not taking me was because he couldn't afford to lose someone. The grand company chairman took a yellow faced woman out with him, which was impolite. These words were later told to me by others. Thinking about the years of hard work and the drunken words he said, I am in a mess. Teacher, do you think I should expose him? He doesn't know how heinous his behavior was that day.
Reply from Weiqing Consultant:
Hello, I understand your current mood. Now is not the time to be messy. He brought his secret to the party. Perhaps he wanted to show off his abilities, and even brought his attendants when he went out. The face of men is good, and dignity is everything to them. He did indeed achieve the effect he wanted, but his drunken and crazy remarks made his classmates sincerely look down on him. It is shameless to insult one's own wife.
But you were not on site at the time, and you didn't understand the situation. You couldn't just rely on someone else's words to disrupt the trust between your husband and wife. This matter is not a glorious thing either. After he wakes up, he will definitely explain to you. If there is indeed an affair or infidelity, we are making plans. However, your current situation is very unfavorable for you.
A woman without a job, in the eyes of outsiders, is just raised by a man and doesn't speak hard. You have your own abilities and should make good use of them. The child is already four years old and at the age of kindergarten, you can hire a nanny at home to take care of the household chores. Personally, I suggest that you return to the workplace to continue working hard, in order to show your temperament and talent and not be underestimated by your husband. I wish you happiness.