Post Date December, 02 2023
Private money is a very popular saying, which means that after marriage, the wife (most of them) is in charge of the financial power, and the man regularly withdraws pocket money. The purpose of this is to prevent men from spending money recklessly, but also to show respect for women and give them enough "power".
However, many men hide some private money for their own convenience. When this behavior is found, there are basically three results: 1. Women make a lot of noise, and there is no private money from then on; 2. Women find men to work hard, either to persuade men to correct this practice, or to be persuaded by men; 3. Women pretend not to know, and men are not conscious of it.
In either case, it is worth discussing whether a man should have private money after marriage. In fact, private money can test a couple's feelings and also reflect whether life is happy or not.
In ordinary families, women are generally in charge of finance, which makes men very passive in spending money. The little pocket money every month may not be enough for your cigarette money, let alone meeting friends through dinner. Derived from this trend, men have formed the habit of hiding private money.
However, their "motives" for hiding private money are different. Some are because they occasionally charge big money in front of their brothers, some are for smoking and drinking, and some are for honoring their families. However, some of them set up private coffers to protect their lovers. So private money is the touchstone of the relationship between husband and wife. That's why. Private money can tell whether the man is loyal to you.
For women, it may be necessary to pretend to be deaf and dumb in some cases when they find that their husband hides private money, such as a little bad habit of spending money on cigarettes and alcohol, etc; Some need to be faced with awe-inspiring, such as the fund for keeping lovers.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
