Post Date December, 03 2023
At the end of each year, I will spend time with Sunshine to have a reunion dinner for two people. She is my favorite friend, full of energy like her nickname, and has always been able to do young things with a mature attitude, so I live with a clear look and high spirits. I like women and men with clear eyes. Many people are not ugly, but have anger and turbidity in their hearts. Their eyebrows, eyes and nose are always stuck together, not refreshing.
While eating, Sunshine picked up her mobile phone and looked at it for a while. After reading it, she put it down gently, with a slightly strange expression.
I asked her if there was anything wrong. She said no, paused, and then said: I received an email from my ex-boyfriend.
Then pass me the cell phone.
I received my mobile phone. What kind of email is this? It is a year-end summary report, including four photos and a document of about 2000 words.
I skimmed through the four photos, which were taken by one person in the office. The office looked luxurious; A family of three ski selfies; Photos of travel in a foreign country; A picture in front of a car. The main idea of the document is to be promoted again this year, travel to South America, and change the car at the end of the year.
I returned my mobile phone. I have seen Sunshine's ex-boyfriend, but I don't know the meaning of his email.
Sunshine grinned: The eldest brother always thought that I broke up with him because I hated him for being poor. So every year, I would send an email like a personal summary report to prove that I had a good life.
I was shocked: How long has he been doing this?
It has been six years since we parted. The sun said lightly.
Have you replied to the email?
No.
Is it interesting that he always does this?
I don't know. Anyway, I haven't changed my email. He sends it every year.
Did you break up with him because he was poor?
The sun shook his head decisively: I will not break up because a man is poor, but because he is obscene.
Sunshine and her ex-boyfriend used to be colleagues.
At that time, they were the same group of new employees who had already performed very well in the induction training, with clear thinking, quick thinking and strong expression ability. Because their families were particularly ordinary and progressive, they looked a little like Jin Dong. Sunshine and he are both in the customer department. Sunshine is the assistant of the customer director, and he is the customer specialist. The two people are living together because of their work.
When he first fell in love, the sun's eyebrows and eyes were all happy. He was deeply attracted by his diligence. He often gave good words to the female director and created opportunities for him to contact with the director more. Soon, she found that this kind of contact was not only work, but also extended to all aspects of life. He carried bags, blocked wine, picked up children, and accompanied the female director on business trips, and became the employee with the fastest position promotion. Of course, the scandal also rose rapidly. There were several versions of the history of the female director in the company.
Because the company forbids office romance, Sunshine and he have been secretly in love, but the hidden paper can not cover the fire of love. Finally, the female director one day talked to two people: one must go.
He said to Sunshine: You'd better leave. I have more advantages in both positions and prospects, so that we can save enough money to get married earlier.
The truth is all right, but there is no consultation and discussion. Even though Sunshine is ready to leave his job to help him, he is not happy to be arranged in such a straightforward way, let alone the scandal of the director.
However, Sunshine is a big-hearted girl. She obeyed the overall situation and agreed to resign and go to another company to work as a sales person. Her income is much higher than before, and her busyness is also increasing.
It is hard to avoid meals and entertainment in sales. Sunshine has its own rules: first, go home before 10:00; Second, do not communicate privately with customers of the opposite sex after 20:00.
She is a girl with a strong sense of boundaries. She is very clear about what to do and what not to do, where her core competitiveness is, and the performance of a decent girl who understands will not be too bad.
However, one evening, a customer with a good relationship suddenly called, hesitated for a long time, and asked, "Is your boyfriend XX?"
Sunshine was surprised: Yes, what happened?
The customer said: Your boyfriend called me yesterday to let us not exchange work too frequently.
Sunshine's brain is hot, and I don't know how to answer the question immediately.
How could he do such a thing without saying hello? Don't trust me. The two people's affairs should be solved in public. How to communicate with customers in the future? No matter how good the relationship is, it has its faults.
She was ready for him to come back to chat in the evening, but he was engaged as usual, and there was still no movement at 9:00. She called him, and the faint voice of pushing a cup to change a lamp on the table after connecting the phone. He drank his tongue a little stiff, and said to go back.
At 12:30, she finally waited for a drunk man.
He admitted to calling the customer and asked proudly: How do you guess I got his number? It really took a little trouble.
Sunshine asked: Do you think it is appropriate for you to drink like this two days a week?
He belched with wine and patted his chest: Do you know how hard it is for a man with no money to survive in this world? If I don't work hard, how can I have so much money to buy a house and get married?
He said to himself that it was not easy to count his own difficulties, and suddenly put his face in front of the sun: "Do you want a boyfriend who came back by bus at 6:00 in the evening, or a boyfriend who came back by Mercedes at 10:00?"?
Sunshine turned away from his drunkenness: I want a boyfriend who has a heart for me. You have no money, we can be together; But you have no heart, we can't be together.
He laughed contemptuously: nonsense, you women are the most realistic. You will not be with men without money. You just like "I am beautiful and you earn money to support your family".
Sunshine also smiled contemptuously: I am responsible for the beauty of flowers, and you are responsible for making money to support the family, which is just a kind of emotion; Women can also "look like flowers together, earn money together to support their family". I never dislike your poverty, but I don't think you are obscene.
Many men think that women dislike their own poverty and lack of future. In fact, poverty is only a temporary economic hardship, while obscenity is a permanent spiritual poverty. What women don't appreciate is not poverty, but men's mental and moral integrity is lower than the social average. They live in a cramped and arrogant way but don't know it. Like a joke in the vast universe, it doesn't arouse people's respect, let alone look up to it. No matter who's love, respect is the basis, Without this foundation, no matter how sticky and sweet it is, it is not solid. It is like a hormonal explosion, not "love", but more like playing and games.
It is not only money that can arouse women's respect.
Don't bully the young poor, don't think the old is ugly. Money is just one of the points of life, which means that you may work hard and work hard. There are many other points in life, such as kindness, integrity, generosity, courage, responsibility, interest, etc. Men with these characteristics may not be outstanding now, but they will not be too difficult in the future, and bring hope to the women around you.
As Wilde said, women like men with a future.
The obscene man, who makes women blind to the future, will also end the present.
After several formal and informal quarrels, Sunshine and her ex-boyfriend finally broke up.
On the day of breaking up, he said, "You will regret your decision one day. You gave up a man who can support you.".
It is also clear from this man that some men's breadwinners include too many additional conditions, which deconstruct the relationship between two people not like love and marriage, but more like a labor contract, including what occupation a woman must engage in, when to go home, when to have children, how much pocket money a month, how many clothes to buy, and how many meetings with friends. "wife" is a job for them, They spend money to recruit female practitioners who are most suitable for the position.
However, Sunshine underestimated such a man's arrogance and determination. He even sent an email every year to prove his good life to his girlfriend.
It can be seen that a man's appearance has nothing to do with his appearance, and his obscenity has nothing to do with money.
Sunshine's husband is a man who is not tall and handsome. He works hard and gives his wife full trust and space. The family of three is warm and peaceful.
I patted my cell phone and teased the sunshine: this ex-boyfriend is not a sub-item.
She also laughed: Who didn't love a few bastards when he was young, and now he wants to slap his ears when he thinks of it.
