Post Date December, 03 2023
It is commonly said that men prefer strange women in terms of "sexual interest", while familiar women, especially those with yellow faces who have slept together for N years, tend to "hold their right hand with their left hand", which can not lift their spirits. Men often mention "paying public food", which is also uninteresting and regarded as a burden.
However, it is strange that although these men in their 30s and 40s have lost their "sexual interest" in dross, they often face "failure" in the face of strange encounters, which is not as smooth and brave as they did when they "handed in public food.". Is it the familiar woman who really "loves" their bodies?
For strange women, what on earth is provoking their sexual desire? And for familiar women, what makes them feel so tired and yet so dependent?
Many men believe that they are tired of their wife because she is no longer young, her appearance is no longer sweet, and her figure is no longer graceful. Or they may feel that this is because they are too familiar with their wife's body and no longer have any fresh stimulation.
In fact, men's sexual requirements are not as close to pure physics as everyone has always believed, which I'm afraid many men themselves do not understand.
As for sex, in fact, men have very rich psychological requirements, which are no less than those of women, especially in the stage after the age of thirty. "A man is tired of his wife, and the reason for his appearance is secondary. The most important thing is that the man no longer feels the sexual attraction of this woman to him psychologically.".
In the process of getting along day and night, they fully revealed each other's shortcomings. The daily routine, trivial topics, and quarrels made this woman, like "The Legend of Immortals", lose all the aura of imagination in the hearts of men.
Some women, even if they originally had some romantic feelings, often fade out of color and become vulgar, leaving no room for men to imagine.
You know, a large part of men's sexual impulses come from imaginary space. Just like men would prefer women wrapped in gauze to being completely naked.
"If there were no such imaginary space at all, men could still successfully complete sexual intercourse between two people, but unfortunately, it would become a complete physical movement.". Many men feel frustrated after the end. In fact, the entire process was not very interesting.
Because the sexual satisfaction that men really need is an inner feeling, as is well known as evidence that women's joy and praise can make men feel satisfied. Especially after men reach the age of thirty, they will pay more attention to psychological sexual satisfaction.
Because men in their early twenties are still at a time of intense sexual impulses, and their sexual intercourse tends to be physical venting. However, men after the age of thirty have less intense sexual impulses, and their thoughts are becoming mature. They will expect a more perfect sexual relationship, which is the joy of physical and mental unity.
So, from this perspective, men are not just having sex with a woman's body. Whether women are unfamiliar or familiar is more attractive, and it has no complete relationship with whether their bodies are unfamiliar or familiar.
(Intern Editor: Wu Weijie)
