Post Date December, 03 2023
In fact, sexual cleanliness is also a product of traditional culture and a common problem in both sexes. In ancient times, men and women's respect and inferiority, three obedience and four virtues are the root of sexual cleanliness. But we need to note that sexual cleanliness has a great impact on us, which will interfere with our sexual well-being. Experts said that because sexual cleanliness disrupts couples' sexual life, people with sexual cleanliness must go to see a doctor in time.
Even in life, people with sexual cleanliness do not regard sex life as an indispensable part of their marriage life, but as their "obligation" or the task of inheriting the family line. Sex itself is very noble, but it is distorted and misunderstood by some people, especially those with strong feudal consciousness.
First, recognize its existence. You can carefully recall and analyze the specific details at that time, and objectively evaluate whether you or the other party have enough hygiene when making love. If you are really clean, your psychological condition includes the factors of sexual cleanliness. The stronger the sense of disgust, the more serious the sexual cleanliness.
Secondly, we should explore the source of sexual cleanliness. We should pay more attention to the analysis of the experience in childhood and adolescence, especially the psychological reaction at that time, and how to recall, evaluate or summarize afterwards. Some people can't recall their experiences and feelings, so we might as well review the experience of the other person or others in turn, and summarize why others do not have sexual abstinence.
Finally, I actively seek psychological desensitization. This is not to say that we can "get used to nature" only by suppressing ourselves and expecting long-term patience, nor is it just to have the attitude of "no matter how dirty the clothes are, they will be clean after washing". Desensitization depends on positive sexual enthusiasm to replace sexual abstinence. First, observe and be familiar with the sexual organs of yourself and the other party; The second is to deliberately experience their wonderful functions, and often deepen this experience in retrospect; Then it is to connect this experience with the best things in the couple's life.
The above is indispensable in the life of a couple. Because sexual cleanliness seems to have a great impact on people, when sexual cleanliness occurs, the other party should not attack blindly. At this time, we should take some measures to make the patients with cleanliness find their own symptoms and communicate with each other heart to heart. When necessary, they need to go to the hospital in time.
