Raise the gun and go to battle, shoot the gun manually. Is this the entire process of your sex? Foreplay is very important, but it is often overlooked by many people. In some ancient health books, the preparation activities before sexual activity were referred to as "theatrical rituals".
In ancient times, when advocating for sexual intercourse, there should be more "theatrical techniques". This can not only enhance the relationship between husband and wife, but also benefit the physical health of both parties.
Men and women are not synchronized in stimulating sexual desire. Women's sexual arousal is often slower than men's and they enter the state later than men's. Warm and affectionate cuddling, gentle caressing, and heartwarming words can make both men and women feel physically and mentally happy and relaxed, achieving physical and mental harmony, and also giving women enough time to find feelings and enter a state.
The key to 'Xidao' lies in the word 'Xu', which means to be slow. The specific approach is to first slowly relax and kiss, causing the woman's face to feel hot and sexual impulses to gradually increase; Then, both men and women gently embrace and hold tightly, cooperating with caressing to make the women's breasts swell and their nipples harden; Secondly, men and women deeply kiss, suck and caress each other, making the body fluid in their mouths increase and become smooth; Gently touch the sensitive area again to make the female's vaginal fluid secrete; Finally, hold the other person tightly and gently shake them, causing the woman's throat to feel dry and swallow saliva. When the female partner exhibits the above symptoms, it indicates that sexual excitement has been stimulated and sexual desire has increased, and can then engage in sexual intercourse. The entire process can be summarized as "orderly flirting, intelligent and timely coordination".
After sufficient foreplay, men may experience erections and stiffness. Women will exhibit a rosy complexion, lips, and eyebrows; Eyes moist, eyes flickering, affectionate; Groaning heavily and sweating slightly from the nose; The body is attached to the person, hugging and tightly fitting the male body. At this point, both men and women had developed a strong desire for sexual intercourse, which was referred to as the "wisdom time" by ancient people. At this point, it can enable both men and women to share the pleasure of orgasm, making the entire sexual life harmonious and happy, and also beneficial to physical health.