Post Date December, 03 2023
When you have dissatisfaction with your partner, it's not easy to vent your dissatisfaction and you don't want to hide it in your heart. When you're with your partner, you're already feeling unhappy, but you're afraid that saying it might hurt their relationship. When I see someone around me getting a promotion or salary increase, I think of myself and my husband, which is too jumping. You really hope that your husband is great and appreciated by the leaders, but to his ears, there are several ways to roast, which can let you talk about your unhappiness without affecting your feelings.
1. Work is too tiring, I don't want to work anymore
This is completely a willful statement. He knows you won't really resign, just saying it to balance his mind, but he doesn't know what to say next. Some men just say in their minds, 'If you don't want to work, quit!' Then you rush to say, 'Quit? Can you afford to support me?' You're thunderous at him! The correct way to relieve stress is: "Dear, I'm too tired at work. Can you give me a massage?" He promised to come back to his senses immediately.
2. Many people have been promoted, when will it be your turn
This is another question that people cannot answer. When I see someone around me getting a promotion or salary increase, I think of myself and my husband, which is too jumping. You really hope that your husband is great and appreciated by the leaders, but to him, it feels like sarcasm - not being able to get promoted indicates that you are useless, and a sense of loss arises naturally. To express oneself correctly, it's better to say, "You work so hard, I value you. If there is a suitable opportunity, you must talk to the boss about a raise
3. Who is that? It's the most outstanding person I've ever seen
It's really unnecessary to praise your colleagues or superiors at home. Men don't want to hear someone better than themselves, nor do they want to see the admiration you show when praising others. Otherwise, his fragile self-esteem will ache faintly, without speaking, but not convinced in his heart - "Hmph, what's so remarkable!" If you feel that others are doing things that are very useful for reference, you can talk about things instead of people, and finally add, "If you were there, you might have done better than him
4. These messy things really give me a headache
I'm not happy at work. As soon as I see him after work, I want to speak up quickly, but you may not have expected that he has to face many things at work, constantly cutting and managing, and suddenly multiplying his troubles by two. How can he bear it? However, you can change your approach and play coquettish with him: "Today at work, I fell into a rabbit hole and couldn't understand anything. Can you help me analyze it?" He is mentally prepared and will definitely show a "heroic spirit" to listen carefully to you and solve your problems.
5. My colleague went for a plastic surgery, and another colleague also wore an extremely ugly coat
Some women are only interested in topics that men really don't listen to. It's better to talk about what's delicious for lunch. When you talk about these topics, although a man may perfunctorily say, "My wife is still the most beautiful!", he often comes up with a sentence in his heart: "What's the relationship between their clothing and me?" If he were to put it another way: "My colleague's coat is not beautiful, it's not as beautiful as the one you bought me." He would be happy in his heart.
Workaholics are the most likely to lead to discord among lovers, especially when you are still wearing a work mask at home, constantly making phone calls, constantly reporting in your hand, and your husband wants to get intimate with you. You also push him aside, creating a boring office atmosphere at home. At this point, if there is a disagreement, it is likely to ignite the powder barrel. If some work has to be done at home, it's best to find time to spend with family, even if it's only 10 minutes, and then reluctantly say to your husband, "Dear, I'm going to work for a while, but I can't bear to part with you. Can you accompany me
