1. Gratitude psychology
Some people get help from each other because they have difficulties in life, or because their husbands are away for a long time and their families are taken care of by each other for a long time. They have no choice but to sacrifice their bodies, resulting in extramarital love. In fact, since the other party sincerely helps you, they don't want to repay you. The other party has kindness to you, just remember it in your heart. Why should you sacrifice your body? If this affects the other party's family, it would be a good intention to do bad things.
2. Retaliation psychology
Some couples refuse to listen to persuasion because one has an affair, while the other actively seeks a third party in order to retaliate against the other, resulting in an extramarital affair. In fact, since it is wrong to know that the other party has an affair, why do you seek a third party? Isn't it wrong to know it? Moreover, marriage is free, and divorce is also free. If the relationship has indeed broken down and there is no possibility of reconciliation, it is better to divorce. Being a friend is better than revenge.
Some couples live a normal and often dull life, feeling insipid, while the protagonists in movies and TV series are lingering in love with their lovers, with waves rising one after another, living a tasteful and unrestrained life. They also want to experience this kind of life. Therefore, driven by this curiosity, extramarital love arises. In fact, peace and security are blessings. Don't look at the mountains from one mountain to another, and you don't know the blessings when you are in them.
4. Compensation psychology
Some people find it difficult to endure loneliness due to the separation of their spouses, or because one spouse has a physical defect, cannot be satisfied physically, or their relationship is not harmonious, so they actively seek a third party or are willing to accept compensation from a third party, resulting in extramarital love. In fact, sexual life is not the entire content of a couple's life. As long as couples strengthen ties, communicate emotionally, and miss each other in their hearts, life will still be full, and there is no need to compensate.
5. Anxiety psychology
Some lovers eventually fail to become family members, and either party becomes a family member, or after one party becomes a family member, the other party is unwilling to become a family member and still secretly loves the other party. When one party's life is difficult or the couple's relationship is not harmonious, the other party feels that they still owe the other party's affection, and therefore actively falls into the arms of the old lover, which revives, resulting in extramarital love. In fact, all lovers may not be able to become family members. Since both parties have already established a family or the other party has already established a family, it is necessary to face reality and cherish the couple's feelings. When the other party has difficulties in life or the couple's feelings are not harmonious, using extramarital love to repay the other party's feelings is not so much to help the other party as to damage the other party, which is actually of no avail.
6. Avarice mentality
Some people are greedy for the other party's money, regardless of their personality, and voluntarily commit themselves to the other party in exchange for a few copper coins, thereby forming an extramarital relationship. In fact, personality is priceless treasure, while money is something external to the person. If you use more, spend less. Why exchange priceless treasure for a few copper coins? In addition, those who have money should also avoid, since the other party is greedy for your money, why pay for the other party's true love, resulting in love.
7. Appearance psychology
Some people actively show their love due to their desire for the beauty of the woman or the physical fitness of the man, resulting in extramarital love. In fact, beauty in appearance will naturally disappear with age, and only spiritual beauty is eternal. Like wine, the longer it lasts, the more mellow it becomes. Therefore, the most important thing is to be good at discovering the bright spots of your spouse and giving yourself a piece of true love, so that there will naturally be a beauty in the eyes of your lover.
(Intern Editor: Chen Hao)