Post Date December, 03 2023
In the eyes of others, everyone thinks they are more intimate than lovers. He prepares breakfast for her every day, and she sends him a cup of warm coffee every morning, without interruption. He is sunny and handsome, and she is gentle and beautiful. It's a perfect match. But he never said "Come with me" to her in person, and she has been waiting for him to say it. Over time, the girl wondered if the boy didn't like her at all and treated her like a sister. In fact, everyone can see that the boy likes the girl, but why he just can't say it, so let's tell you the seven secrets of why the man is unwilling to confirm the love relationship.
1. Think twice, hope to find a better one
No matter how much money and time they spend on girls, men who never say "Let's fall in love" have their reasons for being men. It may be because he is married, but it may also be because he has an improper relationship with other women, or because he feels that there will be better women, which leads to his expectations, thus preventing men from making up their minds to determine the relationship between them. Maybe it is easy for men to walk in two boats. The reason why they don't say "I want to fall in love with you" is probably because of the psychological portrayal of "I don't want to stop here".
2. Cherish words like gold, unwilling to say anything
Contrary to the above reasons, men who do not say "Let's socialize" are not necessarily irresponsible men. Others are reluctant to say "Let's have sex" with the idea that "although they love and want to have sex, they also want to make her happy, but if they are dating, their feelings of love will not be as strong as before".
This kind of man can't speak out because he is too serious or thinks too much, but once they decide to be serious, they will become great boyfriends.
3. Be as timid as a mouse, afraid of being rejected, and can't see you again in the future
Some men do not want to be rejected by women who have just improved their relationship, which makes the relationship between them complicated and difficult. Men are very worried about the rejection of confessions, but they can't even make friends. This kind of man thinks that "the relationship is very good now, and he doesn't want to destroy it easily", but it is because he doesn't say it, so they can't know the idea of the person they like.
Rather than being rejected by the other party and never being able to meet again, some men prefer not to break the ambiguous relationship. They want to maintain the friendship and interpersonal relationship that have been established now, rather than push the relationship forward.
4. Experienced lovers, playing with ambiguity to perfection
Basically, many men hate to be bound, so even if they are nominally in contact, they will not identify or even just say "sexual partnership". This kind of man feels better if he doesn't say anything and only keeps ambiguous words, but if he is clear about the relationship and is recognized, he can't chat up if he meets a woman who is more suitable for his appetite in some occasions such as parties. So if a man can make it clear that he wants to associate with you, he should make the other party feel that there is a future with him. Therefore, men sometimes don't marry women who have a long relationship, but they will marry new women in a flash.
5. It's hard to get rid of love
Sometimes, men will use the line "fall in love with me" as a means to exchange for physical relationship, and then disappear without trace. But now that there are many communication tools such as mobile phones and SNS, it is easy for men to be caught by their girlfriends, so it may be difficult to get rid of them if they want to get rid of them after they have established a love relationship. Nowadays, those who casually say such things as "socialize with me", "I want to marry you." are generally older men. On the contrary, those young men who have been used to being able to keep in touch with each other at a long distance will think carefully instead of saying "want to get married" or "want to fall in love with you" because they are afraid of being unable to get rid of their love relationship.
Men themselves hate trouble very much. Even if they decide to have a good relationship, they will worry about things after breaking up or being dumped. Is this kind of love surrounded by various communication tools good or bad?
6. The way men are responsible has changed
After the close relationship between men and women in the past, most men will feel responsible for women. And this kind of responsible idea also has the feeling of hope to monopolize women. They will say "you are mine", "live together if you get married", "quit my job" and so on. However, in today's era, men's power has become weak and can not monopolize women, and men's sense of responsibility has gradually become blurred, so the number of "ambiguous men" who are struggling to determine whether to love is also increasing. At the same time, such ideas as "can't speak frankly" and "don't like to speak too clearly" may also be related to economic factors and social background.
7. After reaching a certain age, the word "association" seems to be too responsible
There are men who don't want to fall in love at all, but for those men who have a certain age, the word "intercourse" seems too heavy. And the older a woman is, the more urgent she will think about the future, and the more important the meaning of "communication" will be. For men, like is not equal to hope to be together. Men of a certain age do not want to explicitly say that they are more interested in each other's age. If women are old, as long as they imagine the seriousness of each other, men will generally feel scared and shrink back, so they can't say "socialize with me" and so on. Perhaps young women are more likely to say such words.
These are the seven secrets summarized by Xiao Bian. However, Xiao Bian is very disgusted with such boys, which is very unfair to girls. We can't procrastinate like this, otherwise girls will think nonsense. There will be no such store after the town passes. Xiao Bian advises you guys who are in this situation to boldly say "Let's meet" to your other half.
