With the transformation of women's social status, most women today are independent, confident, and opinionated, but the more qualified women are, the easier it is to be left behind. It is also due to the gradual opening up of women's minds that leftover women are more likely to become mistresses. Here are seven reasons why leftover women are more likely to become mistresses.
1、 The conditions for leftover women are relatively high. It is impossible for men of the same age to match their male qualifications. Leftover women often consider themselves mature, while tender men generally despise them. Compared to those who are more successful middle-aged men or older men with money, they are likely to impress their hearts.
2、 Leftover women are narcissistic. Most of the leftover women believe that they have good looks, good incomes, and a strong personality and determination. As a result, many people only know how to dress up their appearance, but pay little attention to their inner cultivation, and are even lazy about doing housework. "It's not a dish that you want to live a good life at all. Making a mistress or being taken care of is relatively less stressful, and you don't have too much mental burden. It's easier to come materially, and you don't have to worry about food, rice, oil, and salt. Even more people don't want to have children.".
3、 Leftovers love freedom. Not willing to be controlled. Go wherever you want, go to nightclubs in the middle of the night, drink and smoke when you're crazy. The attitude of talking about friends is never serious, always thinking that there is still better waiting for oneself, and the heart is higher than the sky. However, when encountering an attractive man who wants to fool around, they also have to fool around, whether it's a boss or a boss, which has nothing to do with feelings. But when it comes to finding a partner, it feels like trouble. One situation is that men with bad reputations are afraid to ask for them, and the other is that good men don't like them, and they all want to find something younger, or something pure, or someone who knows the roots, or someone with great temperament and taste. Most of the leftover women belong to the type of "one bottle full of dissatisfaction, half bottle shaking".
4、 Leftover women always have conflicts between emotions and materials. "I have a house, a car, a high income, a handsome appearance, and a good temper. I don't live with my parents-in-law, but I have to be obedient and understand romance.". These are all my experiences after watching "If You Are the One". Anyway, they all want those with excellent conditions. "But after being choosy, I realized that life is not perfect at all, and eventually I passed the optimal age for choosing a spouse. I also wanted to lower some standards later, but I couldn't convince myself. Some people simply broke the jar and broke it. Although I met some men with suitable conditions, they were already married. However, I had no choice but to live with it and try my best to become a junior with the reputation of affection.", But I always look forward to getting a full employment as soon as possible.
5、 Leftover women have the potential to become mistresses. After being defeated, Xiao San becomes a leftover woman, which is almost a rule to follow. There must be a reason why leftover women only remain. It is also inevitable that the third child will not be replaced by the fourth child. Over and over again, some people miss the opportunity to have a good marriage, so there is an inevitable connection between the third child and the leftover girl.
6、 Some of the leftover women are unlucky and talented. "But the root cause is still in oneself, who is a fool, who doesn't want to be loved, but too much nitpicking, and doesn't want to lower standards or see the West as high as the East.". In the end, it ended up being "thinner than paper". For example, older female doctors, such highly educated women, because of their good self cultivation, tend to look down on young men with low degrees, and feel out of tune with themselves. Although they prefer mature men, these men are often already the husbands of others. In the end, it really became what everyone said, "It's difficult for older women doctors to choose a spouse. If they don't want to be leftover women, they can only be junior.".
7、 The imbalance in the ratio of men to women is also an important reason for the degradation of leftover women into junior high schools. "There are already many men, and it is reasonable to say that women should not be left behind, but as a result, all remaining men are inferior and almost all remaining women are superior.".