Many men feel that they are doing well when they are in love, but eventually they are told they can't do it, and they start to wonder where they can't do it. Ask the other person why, and the other person will just say it's inappropriate and leave it alone. In fact, this is all because men touch the forbidden zone in love, leading women to feel that they don't feel natural and comfortable with you.
1. Pretend to be competent
When women ask men to help them do things, many men clap their hearts and agree, but in the end, they mess up, dragging and pulling, which can't gain their understanding.
"I would rather do what I can in the morning, and refuse politely when I know I'm incompetent. They may still feel that you are honest and maintain a good impression on you.".
2. Hands are poor
In fact, most women are fussy, but they don't like men to be fussy.
As a man, you must be mentally prepared and know that if you go out with a woman, you will definitely spend money. I would rather not go to a fancy restaurant than show a shabby appearance.
3. Just being gentle and accommodating
Most men feel that as long as they are considerate and obedient to women, they can win their favor. In fact, this may be a very, very big mistake!
After reading the analysis of many psychological experts, it turns out that even the most normal women have a psychological attachment to men. Every woman wants to have a man who has opinions, insight, and courage as her escort. "Because if they don't love, they will give everything they have once they love. Just think about it, will they still be foolish enough to attach themselves to a weak person?"? When dealing with women, one should take the initiative and give orders; When tough, be tough to the end.
4. Absent-minded
When dating a woman, a man should politely concentrate and always pay attention to the conversation and intentions of the other person.
If you have been absent-minded and stared at her questions and topics without knowing what was right, it would be a very disappointing event for her! Next time you want to date her again, she may treat you to a good meal of lemons. So, let go of the things that often disturb your mind for a while!
For example, if someone often dials your mobile phone, just turn it off! You won't die without listening to a few phone calls!
5. Excessive joking
Of course, it's okay to joke with women, and there are familiar ways to joke with them, while those who are not familiar with them also have another set of methods. If it's some fun jokes, they can also have an excellent adjustment effect on the overall atmosphere of getting along. "But once a joke goes over the top, the effect will be very bad, and your end may be tragic.". Therefore, it is necessary to be measured, carefully observe their reactions to you, and avoid being complacent, so as not to provoke their resentment and anger.
6. Sarcastic figure
Never, never, never, ever talk about a woman's weight! Even if a woman says she doesn't mind her weight, she still cares. "I would rather praise a woman who has a good figure and a pleasant appearance than casually ridicule a woman who is not in good shape. When she is secretly injured, she will inevitably be isolated.".
7. Too straightforward
"Don't be too frank with women, because women don't like to be too frank. Most of them like to talk to funny people, even sometimes in verbal confrontation, but they don't love overly straightforward and explosive humor.".
So in fact, all the witticisms don't have to be too clear. Let them spend a little time to chew your words to guess the hidden meaning of your words, and then they will smile with complacency like guessing a riddle.
When she complains about things being too expensive. When a woman keeps her eyes fixed on something and says, "It's a bit expensive," the true meaning may be "I really like it.". "If the price exceeds your affordability, you may as well tell her directly, 'This is really too expensive for us to afford.' If you love you, your wife will understand.".
When you watch the ball game, she also watches with interest and snuggles up to you. Most women are not interested in sports events. But when sitting next to you, appreciating together, and talking about your favorite team, it may be that she wants to "seduce" you by snuggling up. A passionate kiss or hug can satisfy her cravings.
When she praises other men. This is where she is suggesting that you need to improve, or trying to provoke jealousy. "When a woman says this, it must have been thoughtful. At this point, the husband needs to listen carefully and not let his wife down.".
When she complains about being old. This is a sign of a woman's lack of confidence, or that she hasn't heard sweet words for too long. She expects you to say, "No matter what, I love you."
When she talks about her intimate relationship. Perhaps it was in the name of a friend that she was pouring out her doubts. Don't ask too many details, just nod occasionally and give appropriate suggestions.