Whether it's due to emotional apathy or sexual dissatisfaction, it can become an excuse for extramarital love, making a successful marriage worthless. To maintain marriage, we must prevent all unreasonable things from happening, and prevent extramarital affairs from bearing the brunt.
The first protection: communicate with each other and listen to your heart
Disliking to listen to each other is the most common cause of marital conflicts and extramarital love among many couples. Let your spouse know that you are listening to what he is saying, even if you disagree with his views, it can make him feel that you understand and value him. Therefore, whenever he says something, you may as well pay attention, or even turn off the TV or temporarily put down the work in hand.
The second protection: tolerance, tolerance, and understanding
Try to understand each other, and the crisis of marriage will also be alleviated. Frequent exchanges of ideas, communication, and housework between couples can help create a sense of intimacy, calm dissatisfaction, and eliminate barriers. On the contrary, it will lead to extramarital love and destroy the family.
Third protection: add freshness to life, don't neglect sex life
Ordinary life makes daily actions seem unchanging, but when everyone feels bored and loses romance. When you have a warm breath, you might as well make a few changes. On special days such as your spouse's birthday, wedding anniversary, Valentine's Day, etc., sending a bunch of flowers or sending an exquisite card that can express your feelings can add a romantic and warm touch to your marriage.
The mind and body also need each other's warmth, so sexual life cannot be ignored. If the sex life gradually becomes dull, it is necessary to spend a little effort to let it regain its vitality.