Some men will suffer from sequelae after returning from infidelity, and so will women. Therefore, it requires the joint efforts of both spouses to have the possibility of a cure. Let's briefly talk about it!
What to do if my husband suffers from the sequelae of returning after cheating
Men who cheat rarely have psychological problems, but some men suffer from the consequences of cheating. Some men come home to see their wives after cheating, and they don't like it at all. They feel like they're losing money at all. This is one of the symptoms of cheating. Once suffering from the sequelae of infidelity, men feel that women all over the world should throw themselves into their arms, and their wives should go to hell. What should we do in the face of such sequelae?
Men's behavior after infidelity varies greatly, including guilt, worry, dreaming, sensitivity, lack of interest in marital sexual life, and even lack of appetite for tea. After all, infidelity is a matter of stealth, and there are always clues to be found, as long as you are careful enough. Of course, there are also a few people who can be unaware of ghosts and minds, calm as water, can be crazy outside, while still allowing their wife to love him wholeheartedly. Such a man, I think he must be an experienced lover, and cheating must not be less than two times. This "high-quality" mentality must be forged. Originally, cheating also requires forging, but this forging is too absurd and shameless, And will eventually pay a heavy price for it.
Three major sequelae of the wife after her husband's derailment and return
The details of cheating make women think about it day and night
Women are always kind, so she chooses to forgive men; "But a woman is also emotional, and choosing to be tolerant and indifferent does not mean that she has forgotten the betrayal of a heartless person.". As a result, the details of those derailments have become the heartbreaking "criminal evidence" of their "daydreaming".
Behavioral changes that make women particularly sensitive
Women believe that if a man truly loves someone, he will change it for her, such as a change in habits or a sudden change in behavior. Therefore, for a "once derailed" marriage, any subtle changes can sting a woman's heart and make her suspect. Is this change because of her?
Overexpression makes women tremble
When an infidelity occurs, there is a "victim" who is not angry, but rather jittery. Because she was afraid of losing this man, she thought that the reason why a man cheated was because he was not good enough. As a result, women lower their identity to the point where men's infidelity is considered their own fault.
Except for the few experienced lovers in love, most men will leave more or less sequelae after cheating. Whether it's men or women, when cheating becomes a disease, when cheating becomes a disease, it's obviously not too effective to deal with it in a conventional way. Simple emotional reasoning analysis is also not important, because it's not just a common emotional annoyance and tangle, but a psychological disease, "It's better to see a psychologist, and the couple should cooperate to treat together. Otherwise, there will only be a dead end to marriage, and he will also die on this road.".