1. Never betray. Don't think "the red flag at home will not fall, and the colored flag will float outside". Don't treat women as clothes.
2. It is not necessarily marriage that gives her real sense of security. It is: whether poor or rich, healthy or ill, love each other and never give up until death separates us.
3. Don't always play games or use computers when you are together. When you are not happy, she may feel left out, but you only pay attention to your computer.
4. Women always have a few days of menstrual period, which cannot be controlled by reason at that time. No matter how hysterical, unreasonable and moody she is, you should coax her to tolerate her. Never show displeasure and impatience.
5. When you love a girl, always remember to say to her: I love you. No matter how many times she has said it, no matter how many times she asked you "Do you love me?" When she said "I love you" to you, you should sincerely say: I love you too, not using other words or feeling redundant.
6. You promised her to do no matter how small. Women all want to have a strong shoulder to rely on and want to tell you everything about her, but if you can't do small things well, how can she rely on you? When she says something that you don't approve of, don't blame or be indifferent, so how can she trust you to tell you everything?
7. If you don't love her, let her go. Don't enjoy her care and gentleness in vain, and then casually look for other girls, and then say we should break up after finding them, or just walk in two boats.
8. Don't always look like a big man in front of your friend and her friend. A woman is willing to take care of you and satisfy your big man's preference for "three obedience and four virtues" because she loves you and spoils you, but it does not mean that she is willing to be treated as a servant and vassal.
9. Don't always stare at other women in her face, and don't always admire the beauty of others. Or why can't you do anything. A woman wants you to love her as she is now, and she wants you to be the most beautiful, sexy, and important person in your heart.
10. No matter how virtuous and motherly a woman is, she is still a child. Don't always want her to think about you, be considerate of your feelings, and focus on you. She also hopes that she can be as headstrong as a child, and that someone can pet and love her as a child, take care of her and care for her, rather than just ask her for love and tolerance as a child
11. If you have done something wrong or hurt her, you should admit it and accompany her with actions. Occasionally put down the so-called man's face, but it can warm her injured heart. Don't say that you should make mistakes next time. She can forgive your occasional mistakes, but she can't tolerate repeated mistakes
12. Don't always yearn to say that you want three wives and four concubines. Say that ancient men are really happy. Say you want three people. She regards you as her only, and she also wants you to treat her as her only. As you often say, can she rest assured that you can go out to meet your sister, sister and friends? Don't always praise your confidant in front of her, and don't care more about other women than her. Women are sensitive animals. She doesn't distrust you. She just cares too much about you. I hope you can do the same.