Post Date April, 15 2023
A man's taste is to choose his wife. What kind of wife he chooses is equal to what kind of life he chooses. As the saying goes, men are afraid of entering the wrong line, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man. It is true that men are not. Hong Yingming, who wrote "Caigen Tan", said that "it is not as deaf as a shrew wife!" A strong demon cannot be weak for a long time, and so is marriage. Shakespeare, a great writer, wrote many wonderful plays in his life, but his marriage view has no romantic color. Because he knows the difficulties of marriage and understands that life will consume love.
What do we need to live our whole life? What is really needed is a good attitude and a relaxed mood. Only people with a harmonious family and a healthy mentality can have the conditions for leisure. For example, marrying a good woman can give a man a relaxed mood.
1. The most important quality of a woman should be kindness and filial piety.
The world does not know how many hard-working men are suffering from the pressure between their daughter-in-law and their own mother? If I am a man, if the girl who is going to be my daughter-in-law dares to ask me, "Your mother and I fell into the river, who will you save first?"!
2. Virtue, which is the eternal female virtue.
3. Knowledge and courtesy are the requirements of the new era for women to keep pace with the times.
A woman's temperament and upbringing is the expression of her rich heart, and it is also the place to really distance herself from others.
4. Have thought and taste.
Thinking makes her disdain to interfere in gossip among others. She has always been an "insulator". With taste, she can express her style ingeniously. I can't tolerate my wife's inability to walk when she sees anything. It's not that I'm poor and can't get used to her!
5. Be sensible.
The most important thing for a man is dignity. She can attack me at home, but she can't satirize and laugh at me in public. A woman who doesn't know how to protect her husband's dignity, don't forget it.
6. Full trust and relative freedom.
It is human instinct to like the new and dislike the old. No one can guarantee that he will only have a good feeling for one person in his life. All women who are going to marry in the world are advised to study Medical Psychology carefully, fully understand their husband's hobby of gazing at beautiful women in pictorials and websites, and do not nitpick because of these subconscious behaviors. Otherwise, marriage will be pushed to death. He wants to stay alone for a while. Don't break his mouth and ask what the matter is. Just send a cup of tea and gently close the door.
7. Have a stable income.
Women can only be independent and self-respect if they do not depend on men to survive.
8. There is not too much material desire.
This is very important! Since ancient times, frugality has led to extravagance. What's more, her contentment and optimistic nature enable her to continue her youth. Excessive vanity often makes men who are not "rich and powerful" nervous, and even overwhelmed. My daughter-in-law should be able to ride a BMW and a bicycle; Five-star hotels can live in, and camping tents can't be abandoned. Only when you eat hard, can you become a person.
9. Refuse to be extravagant and not overly enthusiastic about the opposite sex.
She has good living habits. Smoking, drinking, and all-night banquets and revelations will not happen to her. She will not spend time in places like bars and nightclubs. She knows that her value is not to please the opposite sex, so she will not take the initiative to chat up with other men. It is sunny and snowy that she is high and modest.
10. Innocence is a little childlike.
If a man really likes a woman, he should protect her innocence to the greatest extent. A woman who has not lost her childlike interest can make the long and boring four eyes relatively enjoyable.
11. I like reading and music.
Like reading is not about reading colorful fashion magazines, like music is not about listening to forget popular songs. Classic books and music can make the triviality of time and life not imprint on her mind.
12. Strong working ability and professional skills.
Women at work obviously don't have much time to be paranoid. Having a skill will make her enjoy herself and control her emotions well.
13. Of course, they should not be ugly or too beautiful. They should be more pleasing to the eye.
14. Be healthy, and know the way to maintain health and basic medical knowledge.
15. It is also very important that marriage is a world with color, life and movement. It is hard to imagine that a woman without romance or interest is a good wife.
The above 15 standards should be complete. With such a woman, even if the sun and the moon are cold, the mountains and plants are withered, the light of marriage can still burn warm at the beginning of memory, in any visible and unknown corner
