This is just like being able to chat with her very happily on QQ or SMS. When you meet, you should put down the posture of a big man, let alone the shyness of a small boy. You should talk more freely and appropriately, showing the most confident self.
If you like watching movies, you will find that all attractive men have a good "smile" skill and are very attractive. Whether it's Tony Leung, Andy Lau, or Brad? Peter, or George? Clooney, their smiles always make women feel mature, stable, and secure.
At the same time, when a woman is talking to you, your smile can also reveal that you are paying attention to her and respecting her information, but not pandering to her (which is particularly crucial). This is a very attractive behavior.
3. Tone and intonation
I think you have realized that this is a very profound knowledge, and it may take a week to clarify it if necessary. So, just remember a simple rule today: Try to end your speech with a falling tone.
Lowering the key will give people a more determined and confident feeling. One trick to achieving this is to minimize the use of mood words such as "ba", "ma", and "ne" in your speech as long as they are not interrogative sentences.
For example, "I think so" and "I think so."
There is only one more word "ba" in it, but the previous sentence can make people feel more confident. The latter sentence makes people feel that you are not sure enough, with questions.
6. Speech content
First of all, you need to remember a concept called the "twenty eight principle". "When you chat with a girl, you need to provide 80% of your chat content. Don't ask why, just do it like this.".
Secondly, remember that the 80% of the content does not include the following:
1、 Work. Talk more about your life and less about your work.
2、 Your emotional history. Because no matter how many times you say you've been in love, women can find strange questions to embarrass you, "Why do you have so many girlfriends? Are you not single-minded?" "Why do your girlfriends always leave you?" "Why are you so considerate but don't have girlfriends?"... And these questions, often if you don't answer them well, will undermine the established goodwill.
3、 Don't mention your mother. Especially on a first date. Many men like to talk about their mother's teachings and what she said. Never say that. This can make women feel like you're not mature enough.
4、 Don't deliberately show off. Your achievements, your understanding of things, your interests, let women feel it, and don't need to mention it deliberately.
5、 Your family background. Your family has nothing to do with attracting women to you. Only when you think these things are problems, will they become problems.
"You can become more confident, charming, and attractive, and make more women like you. Of course, you can also make her feel attracted to you."