Post Date December, 03 2023
Lack of security is not just for women, and men often lack it, just like cleanliness is difficult for many men to accept, because a normal man will never have excessive demands for cleanliness. Wives should learn to empathize and consider more about male lifestyle habits.
Men do not want to be 'standardized' in management
Bree likes to keep the house clean and shiny, and is also very strict with his family. She requires her family to have dinner like a meeting, and the tableware should not make any noise. Once, while she was in close contact with her husband, she suddenly realized that a sandwich was about to fall off the table. She quickly pushed her husband away, rushed up to catch the sandwich, and then wiped the table clean. However, the husband was already helpless. When the doctor told her the sad news of her husband's death, her first reaction was to continue cleaning the dishes, dress up properly, cry, and then go out. After Bree lost her husband, the two other boyfriends she found met her "cleanliness standards", but they were both murderers with personality disorders. After suffering a series of blows, Bree became sloppy and manic, and even drank heavily.
Expert analysis: In order to gain recognition from others and suppress her emotions, it is undoubtedly terrifying for Bree to shift negative emotions onto men.
Kind reminder: Women with these typical problems should pay more attention to observing others' families and try living an ordinary life. Thus, it is realized that not all families need to be spotless, and each member should be dressed neatly. In contrast, families that pursue natural harmony are happier.
In addition, it is also important to view issues from the perspective of family members, such as chatting with them more, joking more, and even playing around. Cleanliness is something that many men find difficult to accept, as a normal man will never have excessive demands for cleanliness. Wives should learn to empathize and consider male lifestyle habits more, while avoiding overly demanding demands while maintaining overall cleanliness in the family.
Men believe that their wives' loyalty is greater than heaven
Gaby loves social interaction, but she never gives in or compromises in her family. She longed to be on an equal footing with her wealthy husband, pursuing absolute freedom at home, and would be thrilled to see a handsome man. Therefore, she had an extramarital affair with a college tutor. After being discovered by her husband, she used some small hands to "flatten". Although the husband forgives her mistake, the marital relationship has since buried the root of trouble, and the marital conflict has further escalated. But Gaby brought home one of her husband's male competitors and made her pretend to be her sexual partner. When her husband laughed it off, she would rather pretend it was real. This scene was seen by the husband who was about to bring breakfast into her room in the morning, and the conflict between the two escalated again.
Expert analysis: Many feminists always hope for gender equality and make mistakes when it comes to principles, even trampling on men's rights and dignity. Because these women do not realize that the family is the last domain of men's dignity. In family disputes, women should learn to compromise, show more weakness, and not be self centered. Even in angry situations, they should not choose one night stands or extramarital affairs as the capital of their anger. Because most men can tolerate their wives' tantrums and arguments, but they absolutely cannot tolerate women's physical betrayal. On this issue, there are fundamental differences between men and women, and women can even tolerate one or even multiple physical infidelities with men, but men will not tolerate one such situation for women.
Reminder: Women of this type should not be too selfish or go to extremes in family disputes, especially when competing with their loved ones, as the result of the competition often leads to a dead end in love. Once there is a small friction in the family, the first thing to do is to chat with friends or see how parents usually handle problems, try to divert attention and reduce the desire to take the initiative in controlling family conflicts. Family is a world for two people, and we should cherish it as if it were a treasure passed down from generation to generation.
Men are worried that their wives are always stronger than themselves
Lynette is a strong woman who gave up her career after getting married and raised four children. But she still shows a tough side. Once, when her husband's boss came to a meeting at home, Lynette forgot to join the discussion and stole her husband's attention. After her four children grew up, she returned to the workplace and worked in the same company as her husband, but in a higher position. Her husband took the initiative to help her share most of the household chores, but she often criticized her husband and broke his heart.
Expert analysis: No matter how smart and strong a woman is, she should do her best to maintain the dignity of a man and not harm her husband's confidence and self-esteem. A smart and successful woman should learn to often act coquettishly and show weakness in front of her husband, and even ask some very simple questions that he can blurt out to give him more confidence.
Kind reminder: Women with successful careers should not assume that whoever earns less money should do more household chores. Husbands do household chores out of caring for their wives, so they must be more positive about such behavior. In the traditional sense, men are better at work, while women are better at household chores. Therefore, when a man is not good at household chores, wives must understand. Especially in families with children, it is very rare for fathers to be willing to play with their children. Like Lynette's husband, he can do household chores, and the children also enjoy playing with him, which is enough. You know, being a good dad is amazing, even harder than being a chairman.
Women without independent opinions make men very tired
Susan belongs to the type of woman who has no independent opinions, always wavering in front of every man who sparks. She doesn't know who loves her, let alone who she loves. She often needs her precocious daughter to give her advice. Susan is a bit cute, a bit innocent, and a bit silly, but she sways emotionally and brings pain to herself and those who love her. When her ex husband requested to spend the night with her, she thought the man was unforgettable to her and accepted it. However, she later learned that her ex husband only came back to seek comfort after arguing with her new girlfriend, but she lost her sincere boyfriend as a result. Later, when faced with the pursuit of a handsome doctor she had just met, she couldn't give up her relationship with her boyfriend. It can be said that Susan's lack of determination has led her to lose her initiative in life.
