Post Date December, 03 2023
Women always feel the differences between men before and after marriage, but they may not necessarily know what men want behind this difference
Man's first emotional stop: before marriage
Before marriage, men want a beautiful, knowledgeable, courteous, and gentle woman to accompany them.
"Because of its beauty, it is closely related to the eye, which is both pleasing to the eye and delicious to eat."; Because knowing books and etiquette requires a good education, self-restraint, grace, and charm, like the crape myrtle in the TV series "Huanzhu Ge Ge Ge", a man's face is shining, and his heart is also balanced; The reason why gentle women are favored by men who are full of masculinity is that the beauty of women's yin and softness can bring about a reconciliation between men's overly "rigid" personalities, making them "yin and yang complement each other" and "combining hardness and softness.". No wonder our mentor Marx most appreciated the virtue of women as "gentle". It can be seen that "gentleness" is a woman's secret weapon and the "killer mace" of men's emotions, making countless men the "captives" of women.
Man's Emotional Second Stop: After Marriage
Married men not only rely on women, but also obey them. Because having a loving wife at home makes men deeply feel the good feeling of having a home. As a result, home has become a "haven for men to rest", "a warm paradise"... In order to live up to their wives' expectations, men tend to be more angry, more progressive, and more promising in their careers.
With the passage of time, men have achieved success in their careers, and the "honeymoon" between husband and wife is no longer "honeymoon.". The daily relationship between each other, the novel is no longer novel, and the understanding has already been understood, thus entering the "run-in period" of the relationship between husband and wife. As the year goes by, there is a saying for men, "The Seven Year Itch.".
At this time, due to the frequent social interaction and increased temptation, men's state and performance are unusual when facing their beloved women, regardless of their purpose. One is to demonstrate lofty ideals rather than ordinary people, winning with outstanding professional skills; Secondly, they show great talent or wealth, have a knowledge of astronomy and geography, and have a knowledge of music, chess, calligraphy, and painting. They can be described as omniscient and omniscient, as if they are knowledgeable about the past and the present, and can predict the future; Thirdly, the language is witty and full of humor. Regardless of the three religions and nine streams, or the ancient topic of "the art of the house" can be thoroughly understood and eloquently explained. It is called sublime science and advocates civilization. Even on sensitive topics considered by women, they can tear off their faces and talk about them in a special way, just like pearls of pearls and pearls of earth. It can be said that it is in a perfect state of "deep emotion leads to poetry, and deep meaning leads to rhyme.".
The third stop of a man's emotions: The extramarital affair is true, the words belong to the words, and the performance belongs to the performance. Whenever a man faces extramarital emotions, there are two situations.
First, as one female writer described, "A man is a dog. Based on different structures, it is no surprise that he goes out to take a few baths in his life. Anyway, he still wants to go home. He is loyal, and dogs are loyal." This passage confirms the secular evaluation of men: "Like the new, not tired of the old." Some people compare this man's feelings to "Shaobing (Baked cake in griddle)", which can be divided into several pieces, Falling in love with several women at the same time.
Secondly, men are purely lecherous, and in the face of beloved women with different styles, temperament, and appearance, they always express envy in different ways and manifestations, with a strong sense of "eating from the bowl and watching from the pot.". To tell the truth, most men just stay in the stage of "lustful", rather than becoming "lecherous". They hold a "respectful and aloof" attitude and a certain distance towards the women around them, and they will not easily offend her or possess her. For this "all talk and no action" man, if you ask him why he likes to appreciate "pretty girls"? "He would aptly name it as" keeping a youthful mindset. "It seems that the beauty of women adds another value.". For most men, there is no "use value", but also "appreciation value"
But knowing what a man wants, what can you do?
In fact, about ten thousand changes remain in its tracks, and the most important thing is not to lose oneself
