Post Date December, 03 2023
First of all, your condition is indeed a type of ED, which we refer to as "disuse ED". There are many people with this type of ED, and men who have not had sex for a long time after separation or divorce are the most likely to experience this situation. This is because many skills are acquired and require continuous practice and review, Sexual ability is no exception. If you have had no or very little sexual activity for more than 5 years after divorce, your sexual organs are like a machine running out of oil and temporarily "rusted". From a physiological perspective, the process of erection is the process of nerves and blood vessels doing "gymnastics". The nerves are responsible for transmitting signals, and the blood vessels ultimately complete their movements. If you have not had sexual activity for a long time, it is inevitable that there will be "accidents" such as information loss and ineffective movements
Regular "warm-up" is essential for normal penile erection function
In addition, you have hardly ever been close to a woman in the long 5 years of penile erection. From a psychological perspective, the lack of practice can also make you feel panicked and unable to achieve it again. Although you have a harmonious sexual life with your ex-wife, there is still a problem of re acceptance in the face of a new partner, and it may take some time to adjust. These may make you perform poorly during the newlywed period, but you don't have to worry too much, Disuse ED is a psychological and technical issue that is temporary and curable
For treatment, the most important thing is to have firm confidence and tell oneself, "I have wanted to have sex, I can have sex completely." Then, it is necessary to constantly review and understand the wife's feelings, try to get her understanding and comfort. If necessary, couples can increase the frequency of sexual activity appropriately. After the erection control center of the brain and spinal cord recovers, the long-term suppressed sexual excitement will awaken, and then cooperate with the warm-up of the sexual organs, Sexual activity will gradually improve. If there is no improvement after a period of time, timely medical attention should be sought to avoid delaying the condition.
