Let's use a magnifying glass to see what typical actions men have when they are about to cheat.
1、 The golden cicada peels off its shell
Recently, he always said that he would work overtime or go on business. He spent less and less time at home, and the number of times he went shopping with you was even less.
Although not all "workaholics" represent emotional infidelity, some men will gradually disappear from normal family life before they make up their minds to cheat.
At this time, the wife had better politely talk about his work with her husband or learn about his real work situation from the side, but it was better to leave room for him and not to challenge him directly.
2、 Express dissatisfaction
He began to be critical of your clothing taste. When you told him about the hard work, he always suggested that you go to see a psychologist: "I know you are very busy, but I can't always listen to your complaints. You have brought pressure to me and my children."
On the positive side, he may want you to do better; On the negative side, he may be looking for an excuse for cheating.
The wife had better find out his real ideas, correct the problems he raised, and encourage him if he did not, so as to make himself more perfect and sober, and see what the husband would do next.
3、 Desire to be valued
The husband began to complain that he had to compete with the children for favours. He felt that his wife spent less time with him than the children and was often left out.
Many wives will focus on their children after giving birth, which is likely to lead men to seek attention from others and cheat unconsciously. The best way is to try to have a deep talk with your husband and tell him that the child needs more care now, but your love for him has not decreased.
4、 Nothing to say
Refuse to talk, even if your eyes will not fall on you, but when you answer someone else's phone, you appear enthusiastic and rich in topics.
Many men gradually lose their interest in chatting with their wives after marriage, often stressing that "I have grown up, but you have not", and refusing to talk further for this reason.
At this time, the wife should take the lead in breaking the silence and talking with him. You should keep calm and encourage him to give more opinions to help you grow. If he just wants to provoke, your question is enough to end his boredom.
(Intern editor: Liu Ruichang)