The man in Zigong, Sichuan Province, refused to break up with his girlfriend, and his ex-girlfriend refused to marry him. On September 11, 2013, after the man refused to marry him again, the man forcibly took his ex-girlfriend to his home, and bound his ex-girlfriend to prevent her from escaping. The woman was released and called the police. The man was sentenced to six months. For the sake of a hopeless relationship, if you put yourself in prison, how often will you die? I don't know whether the man will feel ridiculous about his behavior after he stays in prison, and whether it is worth setting up his own future and innocence for this irretrievable love. Love makes people blind, but men need reason. So what are the mistakes that men can't make in love?
Use disguise to gain love
To gain love by pretending to be, love is based on deception from the beginning. For example, the castle in the air can be crumbling at any time without foundation. Unless you can cheat for a lifetime, this love will disappear like a foam when the lie breaks the truth. You can show your best side to your lover, but try to show your real self, or she will fall in love with the role you play, not you. If you want to be with her all the time, you must always play that role in front of her. Otherwise, your lover will feel cheated and leave in anger when you show your true colors one day.
Jealous and irrational
It is natural and normal for lovers to have some seasonal psychology. Men want to be the only one of their lovers. They don't want women to be involved with other men except themselves. They will be angry and jealous because their girlfriends pay attention to other men. Occasionally jealous laughter can enhance feelings, because love begets jealousy, and jealousy is caused by love. But if it goes too far, it will make people go to extremes and become bad. Some men are suspicious because their lovers associate with other men, so they follow up, torture and even commit domestic violence. Some prisoners restrict their personal freedom in order to prevent their lovers from interacting with other men too closely.
Some people, after falling in love with each other, indulge in fantasy and are not good at control. They may even have abnormal psychology and suffer from mental illness of "love delusion". Patients with lovesickness will think that the other party is in love with themselves and cannot accept the rejection of the other party. They will make aggressive behavior because of the rejection of the other party. For example, rape due to unsuccessful courtship, or kidnapping or martyrdom with the other party. If his relatives and friends repeatedly emphasize or prove that his love has not fallen in love with him, he will think that his relatives and friends block his love, and even kill these obstacles in anger, and he is possessed.
Retaliation after lovelorn
People who are lovelorn will have doubts about themselves, produce inferiority, loss, confusion and anger, depression, depression, schizophrenia and mental disorders and other diseases may occur, and direct paranoia and psychological blackening with poor psychological quality will directly retaliate against the society. The man in the article repeatedly seeks reconciliation because he can't bear the pain of lovelorn, and finally develops to kidnap his ex-girlfriend. There are also some men who can't accept directly killing or raping their girlfriend because their girlfriend said they broke up. These crazy behaviors are incorrect and will only bring more pain.