1. Homosexuality
For the first situation, you have no way to change his sexual orientation. What you need to do depends on your own situation. If you put family first, you can only maintain this asexual marriage, and the price for women will be high.
Some women are naive enough to think that they are somehow better than another man, or that what they think can be transformed is actually wrong. In the eyes of a gay man, men are far more attractive than women. The sexual orientation of homosexuals cannot change in a lifetime. No external force can do it.
2. He has a lover outside; "Either you don't have a lover, but you have a one-night stand, or you're not interested anymore."
For the second situation: Because you two have been married for several years, you both know each other well. There is no novelty to speak of, and the degree of pleasure during sex decreases significantly, making it less attractive. Over time, I will become less and less interested. Resulting in the aforementioned results. Men have a strong curiosity and need a sense of mystery in their partner, which can create suspense. In this case, sex is the most enjoyable. It is necessary for couples to have reservations, which is a mysterious and fresh source.
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