One of the criteria for judging whether women are "beautiful" is the promotion of "barbarism". It seems that men always turn around and leave, and even tilt their necks and say, "Where is the world without grass. However, in the thirty years of Hedong and Hexi, when "barbarism" was also elevated to one of the standards for judging whether women were "beautiful", we saw more and more men put down their stinky airs. What makes them willingly wait by women's side, listening to men's explanations.
Mutual habits account for 53% of the surveyed population Every morning when I wake up, I arrange neat and clean clothes in front of my bed. When I walk into the bathroom, my mouthwash cup is even filled with warm water, and my toothbrush has squeezed out toothpaste. At night, when I socialize and go home, no matter how late she is, she always warms up a glass of milk and waits for me. She knows how to arrange every detail of my life without making you feel bored. And these are all the results of my nearly ten years with her. Love seems to have faded, but it's just because it's integrated Into more nuances. There is no shortage, perhaps more. I am very clear about this—— 34 years old, advertising sales
When we were together, we didn't expect to be together for a long time. We just felt that the two of us got along well. We both enjoyed watching videos, listening to music, singing, eating spicy food, and exercising.
We have so many things in common that we won't get bored together because we have so much fun to choose from. Over time, we all began to cherish each other and eventually got married because we realized that there would be no one more suitable for me than him/her—— 29 year old newspaper editor
The "Wang Ba Mung Bean" is attracted to the "Wang Ba Mung Bean" type, accounting for 18% of the respondents. "I don't leave her. I just like her. There's no reason, I am attracted to her. If she were a mung bean, I would be willing to be a Wang Ba." -26 year old civil servant
My friends often ask me bluntly, 'How do I like her? I am recognized as a handsome guy, she is relatively overweight, older than me, and not the kind of good-looking girl.'.
Not in her twenties, not even in her early thirties now. She is not cute either, she has a hotter temper than me, and I take care of her more in life.
I also thought about it. Why do you want to spend your whole life with her? Have you watched the Korean drama 'What is Love'? Dozens of episodes did not provide answers. I can only say that I owe her in my previous life—— 28 year old department manager
The type of debt repayment and guilt accounted for 17% of the surveyed people. "Because I have to spend a lot of time in the car every day, she prepared a large and exquisite kettle for me. In the summer, it is cold mung bean soup, and in the winter, it is warm honey water.
Many times before going out, I quietly stood behind her and watched her prepare a kettle for me. Her focused gaze made me remember when I closed my eyes. I am very busy with work, and it is inevitable to overlook her, but she only silently supports me.
I won't leave her, I feel that this lifetime is not enough for me to repay her kindness to me—— 31 year old human resources
Simple love is a habit.
Whether men or women, this habit will unconsciously become an indispensable part of each other's lives.
Perhaps this happens to be the explanation for the meaning of "growing in love over time".