Post Date December, 03 2023
① Sun Wukong said that I quit to emphasize that after I quit, you will know how powerful I am, and you will have to admit my strength.
② Bajie often says no to work because there is no fun, no fun, no benefit.
③ When Monk Sha said he would not do it, it was because the conflicts were too big to avoid.
④ Tang Seng won't say no, he is perfect, and he will go to the end unless the world is in chaos to the extent of his complete collapse.
For example, many perfect husbands and wives are particularly keen on doing various things for their families. But one day, he suddenly found that no matter how perfect he did, the family was still in a mess, and he could not continue.
If the perfect type doesn't want to work, the degree of recovery will be lower, because his narcissism is too hurt. Perfect people are easy to say no to do, and quitting is a very imperfect performance for them. If he works hard for a long time and finally feels that his marriage is out of control, his frustration is very great. So the key is whether the other party can bear his great frustration. If you can digest it, you can help him grow, because he can feel that even if it is like this, there will still be a relationship.
So these four kinds of people have their own reasons for not doing it, or for not being able to survive in marriage. Because their core needs are not met, they will reach an intolerable level in the end.
