Post Date December, 02 2023
A couple who had just accepted mediation went to Ouhai police station again the day before yesterday, and the police were stunned by what the woman said.
The conflicting couple, whose husband is Xiao Chen and wife is Xiao Wen (alias), come from Chongqing and have been married for 7 years and have two children. Xiaowen told the police that the reason why she was making trouble again was because her husband cheated more often than she did. She felt unfair and would cheat again until the number was even with her husband.
To understand the reason behind this statement, we have to start from scratch.
It turned out that after Xiaowen gave birth to her first son after marriage, she thought her husband didn't care about her, so she cheated. Finally, Xiaochen caught her, but Xiaochen forgave her.
After the 2012 Spring Festival, Xiaowen borrowed money from relatives and friends to support Xiaochen in starting a business in Inner Mongolia. She also went out to work herself. Unexpectedly, during this period, Xiao Chen cheated and angrily demanded that all of Xiao Chen's entrepreneurial funds be returned.
The couple quarrelled and quarrelled until their second son was born. Due to the heavy family burden, they went to Ouhai to establish a clothing processing factory. As the days grew better, Xiaowen's irritable temper worsened. Once, she scolded Xiaochen in front of the workers, stabbed him with scissors, and left the processing plant to cheat again. Xiao Chen also fell in love with a Fujian woman who supported him in his struggle and started living together. After learning about it, Xiaowen returned to the processing plant and quarrelled with Xiaochen until she reached Wutian Police Station of Ouhai Public Security Bureau.
After persuading the police at the police station, both of them said they still loved each other. Xiaowen said that in the future, she must go to the processing plant to help her husband start a business and sever all relationships with men outside. Xiao Chen said that as long as Xiao Wen can control her temper, he is willing to live with her for the sake of his family and son.
Finally, both parties wrote a letter of guarantee at the police station. The guarantee states that if there is any further infidelity, the parties will give up their property and the right to raise their children and leave the house clean. "However, within a few days of the guarantee being written, both parties went to the police station to request mediation.".
Currently, the police at the police station have made an appointment with the couple to hold another mediation next week.
Although men and women have different views on infidelity, they agree that it is a form of betrayal. When your lover betrays you, how do you face it? Can "retaliation" really solve the problem?
In the minds of some people, derailment is a spiritual exile, a dessert outside a bowl of dinner, and a journey after work. For the derailer, derailment means freedom, sweetness, and excitement. For their partner, experiencing betrayal is a form of sadness, despair, and pain.
There is now a word called "retaliatory infidelity". The so-called "retaliatory infidelity" means that a couple or partner has committed an infidelity, and the other party, in order to retaliate against the other party and achieve psychological balance, has also indulged themselves and found someone to do something that goes along.
So, you're cheating, and I'm cheating, too. "We have all made the same mistakes that men and women make when drinking, eating, and drinking. Since then, the already tilted relationship between men and women has magically stabilized.".
It is said that men are not bad, and women do not love them. Nowadays, with the increasing number of social activities among men, there are naturally more opportunities to meet beautiful women. On the contrary, few men can become Liu Xiahui. Especially now, men are eating foods that focus on improving their sexual function, such as lamb loins, bullwhip, and so on, making their male hormones more vigorous. Therefore, once they encounter the seduction of women with water-based flowers outside, it is natural to open a house and indulge.
When the East Window incident occurs, a wife who is no less attractive and capable than her husband will definitely become even more furious in retaliating against her cheating husband. "If caught cheating by my husband, I will also use the phrase" Are you willing to set fire and not allow me to light the lights? "As a legitimate reason for cheating.
Emotions have always been concerned with "you love me, I wish you", and it is also meaningless for me to be ruthless. "Retaliatory infidelity" occurs before marriage, but it is just a precursor to a breakup between a man and a woman. After marriage, men and women suffer even more harm.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
