Post Date December, 02 2023
Originally, I have always rejected blind dates. I always thought it was a particularly boring method. It is far away from love, and it is more like a business deal.
But now I start to rethink the advantages and disadvantages of blind date. I think this method is very effective for those who want to get married, although it is old-fashioned.
Now that they have decided to go on a blind date, they usually have a goal in their hearts, that is, serious love and serious marriage. In order to achieve this goal, each of them also outlined a standard in their hearts. No matter how high or low the standard is, as long as there is a standard, there will be a day when they meet the goal.
To establish an intimate relationship, the most fear is not to ask too much of the other party, but to fear that there is no standard, and you don't know what you want.
J is the most frequent blind date of my girlfriend. Her lovers are basically met in the process of dating. J once joked that she would write a book, all of which are her blind date stories. The title of the book is "My N Hundred blind dates".
J is now preparing to get married, and the object is still the income of blind date. An honest and kind man, divorced, childless, with an annual income of nearly 100000, can not be said to be rich, but a well-off life is definitely achievable. J was very satisfied.
I also have other girlfriends who are dating and failing. Every time people ask them what kind of man they are looking for, they will shyly say, "Good man is good.".
In fact, just being nice is not enough. There are many potential conditions for them, but they don't want to say any of them. The people who provide them with their blind date will naturally have no way to grasp them.
After N times of blind date, J is more and more proficient in this way, and more and more knows how to make his conditions specific and explicit. In this way, the probability of successful blind date is greatly increased.
No one is a worm in your stomach. If you can't clearly describe your requirements, that man will never appear in your life.
Before preparing for a blind date, the first thing to do is to clarify your goal. You should know that no matter how high and large your goal is, you can also find it through blind date, as long as you have a wide range of objects for blind date.
However, if you don't know what kind of man you want to find, marriage will always be in the dark clouds, and you can't see through your eyes.
