Category 1: Men with Happy Marriages
He always talks about his wife with a lively and interesting expression. In their hearts, their wife is a treasure. If you see a man like this thoughtful, with a hint of a smile flashing around his mouth, then he must be thinking about his wife again at this moment.
He has strong work enthusiasm and good interpersonal relationships. He has thoughts and hopes in his heart, is easily satisfied, has a sense of happiness, is relatively low-key, peaceful, and easy to get along with. Such a man, although his wife has never asked him how much money he wants to earn, how big a house he wants to live in, or how big an official he wants to become, knows his responsibility, and his greatest wish in his heart is to let his wife and children live a happier life.
He intentionally or unintentionally reveals his happiness in life in front of others, enjoying his wife's care and love for him. The text messages reminding drivers to pay attention to safety after work on rainy days, and the greetings and phone calls on special days all make men with wives not only moved but also benefited, making them willing to share with others.
He is neatly dressed, clean and refreshing. There is a saying that goes, "When a man walks on the road, he leads a woman by the hand." It means that whether a wife is virtuous and capable depends on her husband's appearance.
A man with an unhappy marriage is a different person.
Category 2: Men with unfortunate marriages
He never takes the initiative to talk about "my wife". If the topic cannot be avoided, such a man will never say another word after a sentence, or use gestures such as waving his hand or shaking his head as an answer.
He doesn't rush home and doesn't have the habit of making phone calls home every day after work. Instead, he frequently invites his friends to eat, drink, or play card games because home lacks attractiveness for such a man. He doesn't plan to go home until he ends up outside every day.
Hot topic: Which of these two types of men is more likely to cheat?
The answer seems clear at a glance, but if the assertion is the latter, it must be wrong.
Men with unfortunate marriages are often less likely to cheat because their tricks are too easy to detect. He likes to complain about the misfortunes of marriage. As long as a woman shows even a slight interest in him, he will feel like seizing a life-saving straw and chattering about his wife's various misdeeds, such as not being gentle enough, being domineering, spending money like water, not being able to manage a house, and lacking communication between husband and wife. Finally, he will say that he is tired of this marriage.
In fact, the true motivation of such a man is just to win the sympathy of other women. If he really wants to divorce him, such a man often finds various excuses because marriage is a transaction or has other intentions for him. Such a man is the most ungrateful and unscrupulous, as if all his misfortunes were caused by his wife. Such a man is hypocritical, cunning, and anxious about gains and losses, which particularly disgusts the women around him.
Such men are also enthusiastic about praising, but only targeting other women, including their wives. Moreover, such praise is unprincipled and applies to all women, such as "you are beautiful" and "you are so intelligent". For women, who would be overwhelmed by such praise if they lack sincerity and are familiar with it?
Many women are extremely wary of men with unfortunate marriages, as such men themselves have a fear of marriage. Such men lack a sense of responsibility, view emotions as a joke, are good at deceiving, and will not have any good results with such men. Many real-life lessons have also reminded women repeatedly that they must be cautious in interacting with men with unfortunate marriages, and face men with unfortunate marriages, Women now have a strong immune system.
And it is precisely those men who always talk about their wives and their happy marriages who are more likely to cheat. Women all over the world tend to have a liking for men who live happily because such men have a broad mind, open-minded personality, enthusiasm and vitality, and are particularly attractive to women. A man who is happily married has no obvious purpose in socializing with other women, which can easily make them relax. Many women may exclaim, 'There are so many men in the world, why do men who fall in love have wives?' That's why.
Due to the lack of defensive mentality in front of such a man, and the inherent jealousy in a woman's heart, she appears more affectionate and gentle, presenting her most beautiful side as if she wants to compete with the man's wife. Therefore, if a man shows a strong desire to love and cannot stop, she will have a strong curiosity and attraction, and cheating is a matter of timing.