Post Date December, 03 2023
Many women complain that their men seem to be becoming increasingly silent. Is it because they no longer love themselves that they are unwilling to talk to them? In fact, there are many factors that can lead to men's silence. Female friends who want to understand can read the following text with the editor to understand men's inner dynamics.
Men are synonymous with strength, so no matter when faced with helplessness, exhaustion, difficult setbacks, cruel blows, or heavy burdens and pressures, they cannot express themselves through crying or venting like women can. The only thing they can do is silence, reflection in silence, and recuperation in silence.
In daily life, men talk half as much as women every day, and often spend a relatively long time chatting in their social circle or work. However, they may have very little time communicating with their loved ones every day. So what does silence mean?
In the hearts of women, men are often seen as the pillars of responsibility and shelter from the wind and rain. They are synonymous with strength. Therefore, regardless of the face of helplessness, fatigue, difficult setbacks, cruel blows, heavy burdens and pressures, they cannot be released through crying or venting like women. The only thing they can do is silence, reflection in silence, and recuperation in silence.
Women like to establish and strengthen relationships through conversation, while men don't. No matter how eloquent they are before marriage, married men are more willing to directly express their specific wishes, such as "I want to go out to dinner with you tonight", "I want to rest", and "I need a meeting".
Many men are accustomed to choosing silence. On the one hand, they use silence to express their emotions, thoughts, and attitudes at the time, and on the other hand, they intentionally use silence to maintain a distance between each other, which can cause women to feel particularly hurt. Women often say 'they have no emotions and are simply cold blooded', which is actually a misunderstanding. Married men are more accustomed to communicating their emotions with their hearts. The more a woman talks, the farther away a man will be from you. Although he is silent, a "protective wall" has been erected in his heart.
