The arrival of puberty marks the beginning of men's development into adulthood. They will become individuals with mature sexual and reproductive functions, and the ability to reproduce offspring. However, as male sexual characteristics become more apparent and mature, they will also undergo a series of changes in their sexual psychology. Therefore, understanding this change in him is extremely important.
Firstly, the formation of male sexual psychology is closely related to the development of sexual consciousness and the activation of sexual instincts. We know that the most important stage of puberty development is when the function of the gonads begins to show significant changes, and sexual function gradually matures. That is to say, at this moment, the testicles and scrotum of the man begin to significantly increase, and there are nightmares. Moreover, under the stimulation of sexual hormones, the body posture also undergoes a series of changes, such as prominent Adam's apple, well-developed muscles, beard growth, lower tone of voice, and taller physique. With the increasing secretion of male hormones and the rapid development of sexual function, they began to strongly realize their differences and relationships with women, and also developed some special psychological experiences, causing sexual impulses and paying attention to sex. For example, feeling shy about changes in one's own sexual characteristics. Some men feel nervous and fearful about their first dream emission, and dare not tell others, resulting in a heavy heart and a trance. In fact, the generation of sexual awareness and love for the opposite sex caused by sexual maturity are normal phenomena in male adolescence.
In terms of relationships with women, it is mainly divided into a period of sexual aversion towards estranged women: this period lasts for about six months to a year. During this period, boys were particularly sensitive to differences with women, adopting a cold, reserved, and evasive attitude towards their partners. For example, as soon as high school boys finish class, they run out of the classroom as quickly as possible and let the girls stay in the classroom until the class bell rings before returning to their seats. The frenzy period for women: Young men who have passed the period of sexual aversion will unusually approach and trick women, especially in group activities. They will try their best to attract women's attention to themselves. Those who do not pay attention to dressing up will remember to become beautiful and highlight their male characteristics. Some boys mistakenly view bad habits such as smoking and drinking as a sign of masculinity. Romantic Love Period: This is the exposure of a secret love that has been brewing inside for a long time. At this point, they focus their love food on one woman while significantly reducing their relationships with other women.
In short, the emergence of strong sexual desire and impulses during adolescence is a normal psychological and physiological phenomenon during their development.
(Intern Editor: Chen Hao)